The most important thing between husband and wife is to understand and tolerate each other. To do this, we must learn to be honest and not to suspect or conceal the intention of thinking about each other.
There is nothing that cannot be negotiated between husband and wife. The most taboo thing is to make trouble. If both parties can think from the perspective of others, they can make things happen, make sense, make big things turn small, and make small things turn small things into nothing, and family harmony is no problem.
My wife and I met online, which is the so-called online dating. The first time we met was together, and it was natural without any twists and turns. Now it has reached a seven-year itch. In the daily relationships over the past few years, we have gone from acquaintance to know each other. Although life has been bumpy, we have gradually learned to tolerate each other's shortcomings, appreciate each other's strengths, support each other, and accommodate each other.
Take interest as an example. I am not good at literature and art, and I am not passionate about sports. Apart from going to work, I am just going home to get off work and becoming an otaku. And my wife is a girl in the tourism industry and has a cheerful personality. I think I don’t like drinking like this and rarely go to socialize, so she doesn’t go out and just stays with me at home. I like reading novels, and she doesn't blame me. He likes watching movies, so I downloaded her favorite movies.
I love noodles, she loves hot pot. In daily running-in, she accepted my noodles, and I also fell in love with her hot pot. Finally, the holiday dinner at home evolved into hot pot and fancy noodles. After eating it for many years, I never got tired of it.
I also like traveling, but I rarely make plans. I know she will definitely make arrangements. I am only responsible for practicing my own photography skills and taking photos for her. After a few years, I feel that my photography level is already very high.
Because of the average family conditions, I was still very nervous when I first got together. I was embarrassed to say to her that I had no money, and my hesitation did not make her feel impatient. Without knowing it, she prepared her wedding dress herself, took me to take wedding photos, and negotiated everything with her parents, and did not ask for a bride price. What moved me the most was that she went to a small shopping mall to buy two silver rings worth 50 yuan, and secretly stuffed them to me on the day of her wedding.
Poverty did not depress her, but her passion ignited my motivation to fight.
When we first got married, we agreed that she cooks and I washes dishes. We have been abiding by this agreement for so many years. From the initial slightest difficulty to the fragrance now; from the initial scrambling to the current scent, I can clean the kitchen every day, and even extend it to every corner of the house. I have already liked the fun of tidying up and cleaning. We have never blamed each other. I don’t think she did not deliberately make the meal like that. She should understand me, so she never complained.
After experiencing the wind and rain, understanding the failure, and waiting for a good day when the clouds cleared and the fog was in full swing.
Now my life is in middle age. Because of the problem of the child, my wife chose to quit her job and be a full-time housewife at home. Even if she is full of messes, she takes good care of her two children and me. I make money to support the family. We each play our role in the family well.
I also clearly know that she has a strong woman’s heart, but she never complains about being tied to her family, so she has a driver’s license, but I don’t have a driver’s license, so I go out and listen to her. She made all the decisions in life such as getting a child’s household registration, getting insurance, buying a house and getting a loan, etc., and I never questioned it.
Just like that, we still rely on each other. There is no one who sees who looks at his face. Although he is not rich, he is at least contented.
has talked about so many family matters. In general, husband and wife relationships are mutual understanding and tolerance. They are independent and able to live in harmony, tolerant and not excessive interference, promote each other and respect each other. You will love me for the rest of your life, and I will give everything for you.
