A person's way of speaking determines his level.
is good at eloquence. People who can speak will give people a sense of generosity and decent no matter when and where they are, and they can also be loved by everyone. This type of people is also the easiest to succeed.
First of all, when communicating with others, you must know how to say good things. Saying good things does not mean hypocrisy, but rather a manifestation of politeness. Not being able to say things will make you seem passive when socializing, and sometimes it may be embarrassing. If you can't speak scenes, it is easy for others to think that you are not sincere. Of course, the scenes are not false. If you keep talking about the train, you should start in line with reality, so that people will feel real.
Secondly, you must control your mouth and know how to be sensible when speaking. "The disaster comes from the mouth" is an eternal truth. If you don't speak properly, you will often offend others. If you cause others to hold grudges, it will be worth the loss. Let's take a story together.
Li Si is an editor of the newspaper. He is usually enthusiastic, but his only disadvantage is that he is a little silly. Once, an advertiser visited the newspaper and wanted to learn more about the newspaper to facilitate advertising investment.
Li Si is very enthusiastic, and he speaks everything he knows, and he tells all the good and bad things. As a result, the leader criticized Li Si severely: "Do you have a proper sense of speaking? Tell customers everything, it's fine, and let customers know the bad ones who will invest in us?" Although Li Si in the story of
is eloquent, he does not know how to speak properly and speaks without restraint, which also caused him a lot of losses.
Again, when communicating with others, you must also know how to consider your preferences. Many people who are eloquent and able to speak can do this. Only by talking about topics that others are interested in, and you can better achieve your goals. Of course, you also need to do your homework in advance. After understanding the other person, you can send the words to the other person's heart.
Finally, when speaking, you should avoid talking about taboo topics, "Don't slap people in the face, and don't expose others' shortcomings." Don’t expose other people’s scars when communicating with others, and don’t tell others’ scandals in public. No one wants to be exposed and make a fool of himself, and he will definitely feel unhappy.
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