I am 56 years old, and my son brought back more than 20 girlfriends. After hearing my request, they broke up. The girls are so pretentious now
I am Aunt Yu, a rural area, I am 56 years old this year. I have a son, 33 years old. My wife died of illness when my son was 13 years old.
After my wife left, many people wanted to marry me, but I didn’t want to be a stepmother for others, nor did I want my son to be wronged, so I never got married again.
Fortunately, my son is very sensible, smart, and listens to me very much. Whether it is study or life, I don’t need to worry or worry too much.
When my son was in high school, he was in the county town. I think my wife is gone, I can’t make much money even if I farm, and you can’t make much land.
I followed my son to the county town, rented a house near the school, and found a dishwashing task in the restaurant.
After my son was admitted to university, he went to school in the city. I followed my son to the city and lived in a rented house. However, this time I did not go to work anymore, but chose to set up a stall.
sells breakfast in the morning and late-night snacks and fruits in the evening.
When my son graduated from college, I had already made a lot of money. And my son also has a good job in the city.
I rented a small storefront and started small businesses such as fruits and vegetables. The business is good, and I can earn more than 100,000 yuan a year.
When my son was 27 years old, I spent all my money in the city and bought a 4-bedroom house. He settled a house in the city, and his son is not young anymore, so he needs to have a house when getting married.
Just after we moved into the new house, my son brought my girlfriend back. The girl looks good, but she doesn’t read much, and after graduating from college, I don’t like her very much.
However, I will make a request. No matter whether the other party is my favorite or not, as long as my son likes it and she can accept my request, she can marry in.
I made a table of good food to entertain her. We chatted while eating. As a result, after listening to my request, she left angrily before she finished her meal, leaving my son and I in a mess.
In the next few years, my son brought back more than 20 girlfriends intermittently. After listening to my request, they ran away without eating.
Some time ago, my son brought back a girlfriend. The girl was named Xiaofen. She had never been to college and worked in a clothing store. Apart from being young and beautiful, she was not compatible with my son in all aspects, and I don’t like it very much.
But thinking that my son is 33 years old and can't be delayed anymore, I said straight to Xiaofen: "You can marry my son, but I have a few requirements, I hope you can do it."
Xiaofen smiled sweetly and said, "Auntie, what do you have? Even if I say, I will do what I can do."
I said, "My requirements are not high, but my family is better than yours. My son is tall and handsome, has a high education, has a good job, has a high income, and has a house and a car.
I hope you can make a pre-marital property agreement before getting married, and spend AA on life after marriage, so that no one will take advantage of anyone.
And you have a younger brother. I hope that after you get married, you can't always go to your parents' home, and you can't always pay money to your parents' home. We don't accept the devil of helping your brother.
There is also, our family does not spend a bride price when we get married. We will not give you parents' bride price. The cost of getting married and having a banquet is shared by our two families.
In addition, after you get married, you must have a child as soon as possible, and at least 3 will have to give you men and women. I will help you take care of you, but you have to pay 5,000 yuan a month. "
As soon as I finished speaking, Xiaofen said, "I'm sorry, aunt, I have something to do, I'm going to go back to the store first." As she said that, she picked up her bag and left.
My son wanted to chase her, but I stopped him. I think such a girl is too rude and is not suitable to be my daughter-in-law.
Unexpectedly, less than two minutes later, my son received a message from Xiaofen saying that my request was too much and he wanted to break up with my son.
When my son sent a message to explain to her, he found that she had blocked my son.
Alas, just like that, my son has been dating a girlfriend for more than 20 years in the past few years, but he was screwed up by my request.
I don’t understand. Nowadays, girls are so pretentious and don’t feel good anymore. I think my requirements are very ordinary.
You said, are my requests too much?
@Mu Ziyan Story : Aunt Yu, your request is not too much, but wife... it is too much. Does your family have inheritance of the throne or a mountain of gold and silver?
is not a good girl, nor is it a pretentious girl now. If you continue like this, your son will never marry a wife.
Originally, your son listened to you in everything, just a mama boy, whoever married would be unlucky; plus a mother-in-law like you, what would your future life be like? As you can imagine, it is terrible to me if I think about it.
suggests that you and your son make some changes, otherwise they will really stay alone. Good wishes.
Friends, do you think Aunt Yu’s request is too much? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.
