In my country, since ancient times, men have believed that men are the successors of this family and often dislike girls, especially many older people. They often prefer boys and are prone to doing unfair things when facing girls.
Many families often regard women as fertility machines. If a woman can give birth to a boy, then everyone will be happy. If a woman gives birth to a girl, she may be disliked by her in-laws and may be swept out. In fact, having a boy or a girl is more than just a woman. If a woman is disliked because she gives birth to a girl, how can she be happy to live in such a family?
When Liu Yun and Liu Qiang got married, they were worried that Liu Qiang's family would not have enough money, so Liu Yun almost didn't ask for a bride price. He only hoped to live happily with Liu Qiang, but life still disappointed her after all.
Mother-in-law is a very superstitious person. When two people get married, they keep telling fortunes for them. The mother-in-law disagreed with this marriage at all. The mother-in-law thought that Liu Yun could not give birth to a son for the family, but Liu Qiang had no choice but to insist. A year after the marriage, the two's first child was born, and it was indeed a daughter. My mother-in-law's face was full of sorrow. Although Liu Qiang didn't say anything, he was shining when he saw other people's boys.
In order to have a second child, Liu Yun actively exercised and hoped to add children to this family as soon as possible, but his mother-in-law said sarcastically that hard work is useless, and you have no life as a son. Liu Yun didn't care at all, but Liu Qiang always came home very late. The two of them wanted to be intimate, but they almost had no chance.
When Liu Qiang returns home, he always quarrels with Liu Yun over trivial matters. He can't see Liu Yun's hard work at all. The relationship between the two has dropped to freezing point. Liu Yun thinks this is just an internal conflict. He never thought that Liu Qiang's thoughts were no longer on him at this time.
Suddenly one day, a woman with a big belly came to the house. Her mother-in-law treated her very enthusiastically and said to Liu Yun viciously, "You mother and son, leave quickly, and pointed to the woman's belly and said, "This is the successor to our family." As he said that, he helped the woman into the bedroom. Liu Yun felt unwilling to accept it, but when he saw the child beside him, he was unwilling to leave a shadow on the child. The next day, he divorced Liu Qiang and left alone with the child.
Although the days after the divorce were very hard, Liu Yun was in pain and happy to see the changes in his children. Once, when he met his former neighbor on the street, Liu Yun realized that his ex-husband and his son had already suffered retribution.
It turned out that the woman's belly was not a son at all, but a girl, and the child was not Liu Qiang's. Later, the woman ran away with the child and others. When she left, she took away almost all the property in the family.
Liu Qiang wants to remarry, but he doesn't have enough money. His mother-in-law is crazy when she thinks about her grandson all day long. She is sent to a mental hospital in a few days, and Liu Qiang returns to single again.
Some things cannot be forced, especially for a woman to have a boy or a girl, and it should be viewed objectively. Boys and girls can also become the pillars of the family. There is no need to be obsessed with having a boy, especially for older people, they should be more open-minded and treat every child well.
