According to data released by the National Health Commission on July 5, 2022, the current average life expectancy in my country is 77.93 years. According to this data, after 40 years old, most people have lived half their lives. After living for half a lifetime, many things will become more and more clearer, especially after the age of 40, Confucius said: "It is not confused when you are forty (from " Analects of Confucius·文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文文� After 40 years old, people understand something more and more:
After 40 years old, they first understand that health is the most important thing. After 40 years old, they feel that all the functions of their bodies have decreased significantly. They will get angry after walking a few more steps, and they can’t move heavy things. Only then can they realize that everything is fake. Having a healthy body is the most important thing. So why do many people only start exercising after 40 years old, start learning health and maintenance.
Only after the age of 40 do you know which ones are your true friends. There are very few people who can meet frequently after the age of 40 and talk about topics as they please. It is very lucky to have 1 or 2 around you. Only then do you know that these are your true friends in your life.
Only after 40 years old can you understand the true meaning of money. When you are poor, you really have a penny to stump heroes. Making money is a big deal more important than anything else. But when you have a certain sense of wealth, money is not your whole. As long as you have enough food and drink, and enough to support yourself, it is enough to be the same. When your wealth cannot be spent in your lifetime, money is just a number.
After the age of 40, I realized that there is no so-called "feeling in the same heart". At most, I can only "empathize with " or "understanding" with you. My own pain cannot be felt by others. Even if I are the closest people, your loneliness and happiness cannot be felt by others. We can only tell and share with others, and we can only try our best to let others understand us. Similarly, we cannot feel the feelings of others, so we must learn to be more tolerant and empathetic.
Only after 40 years old did I realize that family affection is not solid. Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. The ancients did not deceive me. Some relatives who often do not contact or only look at your social status and wealth can even be inferior to ordinary friends, and they cannot compare to brothers who can hang on for you. Therefore, family affection is not as important as before for you in your 40s.
In fact, 40 years old is only half of life, and there is also a wonderful second half. The more we live, the better we can plan and lay the foundation for the second half. Whether it is good or bad, the past is already past. We should cherish the present and live a good life in the present.
