At the age of being ignorant of the world, there may be a sudden sigh of "listening to your words is better than reading for ten years". But after rich social experience, I am reluctant to listen to the preaching and even disgusted. Why? Because I always feel that I understand everything and see through everything, are you still talking about life to me? It’s like a child telling you a big reason, can he accept it? Strongly disgusted and self-righteous, this is human nature.
When we teach others, we always like to act in a pretentious manner, and talk hard and never finish it, regardless of whether the other party wants to listen or not. However, when others reason with themselves, they look very annoying. Take it seriously? Perhaps more often, it is used as a joke and disdain. Even in my heart, I feel extremely despised: what a thing, I think I am self-righteous, and it is worthy of reasoning with me, and it is also funny. I feel that I am at a high level and can't listen to what ordinary people say, and I feel that not everyone is qualified to say it to me, even if it is very sensible. This is also human nature.
However, whenever a person with a little status talks to him, he will show a humble and humble look, accompany him with a smile, try his best to please him, and ask for advice humbly, like a child, listening quietly and untiringly, looking very educated and admiring. Even, regard the other party's words as the truth. In the same way, the truth is still the same, it is just someone who has changed his identities to speak. This is human nature.
In fact, you don’t know those people who are taken seriously by you and even regarded as role models. Maybe in their circle, they are nothing. It is even possible that they are the best and most bullied, and are often sarcastic and mocked by others. I can't imagine, this is also human nature,
