"Listen more and nodded frequently" is a strategy for dealing with the world. Only soft can one not be broken and last!
"Speak less and listen more often" is a good strategy for dealing with the world. If you do this, you will suffer less harm and have more friends in interpersonal relationships.
"Listen more" means listening to others' words, listening to others' experience in doing things, listening to others' interpersonal grievances, and listening to information about the surrounding environment revealed by others' words... If you listen more, others will say more because of you "Listen more". The more they say, the more you know.
"Speak less", if you can listen more, you will naturally say less. Speaking less can not only "guid" the other party to say more can avoid revealing their inner secrets, but also avoid saying the wrong words and offending others. If you say less, you will become a calm bystander, and everything is in your control.
"Nodding often" does not mean that you are a vocal person without opinions, but rather that you avoid being an inappropriate person in the group. That is to say, when you hear others speak, nod more to indicate your concentration and agreement. If you have different opinions, you should nod first and then raise it. It is irrelevant, don't stick to your own opinions. In this way, you will not have a way to go.
"Listen more and say less often" is to follow the objective environment and avoid highlighting yourself, in order to reduce the possible harm others may do to you.
0 The principle of "listening more and speaking less often nodding" is suitable for any stage of a person's life. When entering society, "listening more and speaking less often nodding" is learning; in middle age, career shows an upward trend, "listening more and speaking less often nodding" can reduce resistance; when you are old, in fact, what else can the elderly say? It is better to keep silent and "nodding more" and encourage young people, otherwise you will not be respected by others and become an elderly person that everyone hates.
It is not easy to "listen more and speak less often", but it does not actually violate your own principles. This is a strategy for dealing with the world. Only softness can be difficult to break, last, and exist.
