As the saying goes, leave room for life, keep things and speak!
When my daughter-in-law was the most difficult thing and begged my mother-in-law to help her help, she said arrogantly: "Did you give birth to a child for me, the mother-in-law? whoever has children will take care of myself! I have children and daughters, and I don't expect you to serve you when I am old." More than 20 years have passed. The more majestic and happy my mother-in-law was back then, the more down-and-out and miserable my mother-in-law was!
The eldest daughter sent Aunt Li, who had been in bed and needed care after accidentally falling , sent her to a nursing home. Aunt Li called his son and said, "Son, mom wants to go to your house to support me, so that your daughter-in-law can take care of me."
The son said directly, "Mom, you said you have children and daughters, but you don't expect others when you are old."
The daughter-in-law said, "It's your son who always says that you rely on your son and daughter to support me, and you don't expect me to take care of me. You can come to my house to support me, but don't expect me to take care of me, and let your son bring you shit, urine and cook for you. It's a good thing! "
's son said, "Mom, you know, I'm too busy, so how can I have time to take care of you. Don't come to my house. You either stay at my elder sister's house or stay in the nursing home. When I have time, I will come and see you."
Aunt Li remembered what she did at the beginning, and tears fell down, and her intestines were regretful. Alas, who would you blame for the end now?
Aunt Li has two daughters and one son. In order to have a son, Aunt Li suffered a lot. Even if I have a daughter, I can’t even raise my head in my in-laws’ house. I vowed to have a son and live a life with great confidence.
Later, when he was nearly 40 years old, he finally got his wish and finally gave birth to a son in his third child. From then on, Aunt Li's mother became "showing her strength" at home based on her son's honor.
is also the only son because he is an "old man". Aunt Li and her husband were particularly beloved to him and told their two daughters that they had something delicious to let their younger brother eat, and that their older sister would let their younger brother go. Outside, who bullies your younger brother, the sister has to help her...
days passed day by day, and the son grew up under the love of the whole family. Aunt Li's three children were all married and had children successfully.
Aunt Li's eldest daughter is very married, and her husband's family has 5 large stores. This was amazing at that time.
This has also become the capital for Aunt Li to show off. Every time I mention my eldest daughter, Aunt Li is so arrogant. He said that her eldest daughter is so good and her in-laws are so rich.
The second daughter, relatively speaking, is almost there. Married to an elementary school teacher, but his income was not high. The second son-in-law was not convinced by Aunt Li. Every time he saw his second daughter and second son-in-law, Aunt Li would be so angry that he would scold the couple. As the times go on, my little daughter and her family are not willing to come to Aunt Li.
And what about old people? He married a woman who was unhappy with Aunt Li. Aunt Li’s daughter-in-law is from a neighboring village. Her family is in an average condition and she goes out to work after graduating from high school. Aunt Li thought that her eldest daughter was married so well and her son was not bad. She only had a city girl worthy of it. However, her son found such a person and came back.
Aunt Li cried, made a fuss, and hanged her, and refused to let her daughter-in-law come into the house. Unexpectedly, her son would not marry her, so he had to hold a wedding for them. I gave two rooms, but I didn't even give the bride price.
Fortunately, my daughter-in-law is very kind and doesn’t care about these things.
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After the son got married, his daughter-in-law became pregnant. Aunt Li is afraid that she has been tired for so many years and should enjoy her happiness. So he took his wife to his eldest daughter's house in the city. This residence lasted for 20 years.
When the daughter-in-law was about to give birth, the son accompanied his daughter-in-law to the city and said to Aunt Li, "Mom, I'm about to give birth. It's not okay to have no one to take care of you. You are a little more burdened. Can you go back and take care of me?"
Aunt Li said unhappily: "Your aunt and sister-in-law's child is still so young, how can I leave? I have children and daughters. I won't expect you to support you in the future. Please ask your mother to take care of you."
My daughter-in-law left with tears in her eyes.
The grandson was born, Aunt Li went to the hospital for a look, gave her a red envelope of 600 yuan, and left in a hurry.
When the grandson was half a year old, his daughter-in-law and his sister-in-law were going to have a baby, and his mother went back to her home. The daughter-in-law was at work and no one took care of the children. The couple came to her aunt again and begged Aunt Li for help. With tears in her eyes, the daughter-in-law knelt down and said, "Mom, I really have no choice but to beg you. Please help me take care of the children for your son and grandson, okay?"
Aunt Li said angrily: "Why should I take care of you for the children? Whoever gave birth to them will take care of you? I have children and daughters. I won't expect you to serve you when I am old in the future!"
This time, the daughter-in-law left crying, and before leaving, she said: "Okay, you have children and daughters. When you are old in the future, don't ask me to take care of you."
Since then, no matter how difficult the daughter-in-law is, she has never looked for Aunt Li again.
Time passes quickly, and in a blink of an eye, 20 years have passed.
The eldest sister-in-law's two children have also started a family. Household housing is getting more and more stressful. My elder sister always calls her younger brother and sister-in-law in an out-of-mouth manner, wanting them to take the old man home, but she also said that she is a married daughter, how could she keep supporting her parents in her parents’ elderly care?
Every time, my brother dared not say anything, and my sister-in-law refused directly.
A month ago, Aunt Li accidentally fell while mopping the floor at her eldest daughter's house. He had a coccyx fracture and stayed in the hospital for more than a month.
was discharged from the hospital, and her daughter sent her to the nursing home directly. This is why Aunt Li called her son and daughter-in-law in the previous conversation.
My wife left a few years ago. The proud eldest daughter was unwilling to support herself. The younger daughter was hurt by herself and she was even more unwilling to take care of her. Now, she can't go back to her son and daughter-in-law's home. Aunt Li regretted it at this time, why did she live like this? I have children and daughters, but my daughter is married. My son is too busy and old, so I still have to rely on my daughter-in-law. I offended my daughter-in-law thoroughly, and this is a way out!
Being a mother-in-law, don’t say anything in front of your daughter-in-law: “I have children and daughters, and I don’t expect you to serve you when I’m old” is sad and chilling.
You should know that before the last time, who knows the son, daughter and daughter-in-law, who can be reliable and who can't be reliable?
Ten years to see the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a mother-in-law, when she is young and capable, she will help her daughter-in-law and help her. Be kind to your daughter-in-law. In her later years, her daughter-in-law will naturally know how to be grateful and treat her mother-in-law kindly with her heart.
On the contrary, my mother-in-law's old age is alas, it's worrying!
When the grandson was half a year old, his daughter-in-law and his sister-in-law were going to have a baby, and his mother went back to her home. The daughter-in-law was at work and no one took care of the children. The couple came to her aunt again and begged Aunt Li for help. With tears in her eyes, the daughter-in-law knelt down and said, "Mom, I really have no choice but to beg you. Please help me take care of the children for your son and grandson, okay?"
Aunt Li said angrily: "Why should I take care of you for the children? Whoever gave birth to them will take care of you? I have children and daughters. I won't expect you to serve you when I am old in the future!"
This time, the daughter-in-law left crying, and before leaving, she said: "Okay, you have children and daughters. When you are old in the future, don't ask me to take care of you."
Since then, no matter how difficult the daughter-in-law is, she has never looked for Aunt Li again.
Time passes quickly, and in a blink of an eye, 20 years have passed.
The eldest sister-in-law's two children have also started a family. Household housing is getting more and more stressful. My elder sister always calls her younger brother and sister-in-law in an out-of-mouth manner, wanting them to take the old man home, but she also said that she is a married daughter, how could she keep supporting her parents in her parents’ elderly care?
Every time, my brother dared not say anything, and my sister-in-law refused directly.
A month ago, Aunt Li accidentally fell while mopping the floor at her eldest daughter's house. He had a coccyx fracture and stayed in the hospital for more than a month.
was discharged from the hospital, and her daughter sent her to the nursing home directly. This is why Aunt Li called her son and daughter-in-law in the previous conversation.
My wife left a few years ago. The proud eldest daughter was unwilling to support herself. The younger daughter was hurt by herself and she was even more unwilling to take care of her. Now, she can't go back to her son and daughter-in-law's home. Aunt Li regretted it at this time, why did she live like this? I have children and daughters, but my daughter is married. My son is too busy and old, so I still have to rely on my daughter-in-law. I offended my daughter-in-law thoroughly, and this is a way out!
Being a mother-in-law, don’t say anything in front of your daughter-in-law: “I have children and daughters, and I don’t expect you to serve you when I’m old” is sad and chilling.
You should know that before the last time, who knows the son, daughter and daughter-in-law, who can be reliable and who can't be reliable?
Ten years to see the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a mother-in-law, when she is young and capable, she will help her daughter-in-law and help her. Be kind to your daughter-in-law. In her later years, her daughter-in-law will naturally know how to be grateful and treat her mother-in-law kindly with her heart.
On the contrary, my mother-in-law's old age is alas, it's worrying!
