What would you do if your husband betrays his feelings?
On the Internet, a woman's behavior is domineering. She found that her husband was having fun outside, so she made a banner without hesitation and went to the woman's unit to "confess" and expressed her willingness to "propose marriage and take concubines."
This banner has a lot of irony, but it has a great influence. I guess the third sister will tremble when hiding behind the window.
Netizens also support it.
- Some people say, "When doing it well, it feels very fulfilling."
- Some people also say, "Women are educated and literary, so that the other party can retreat when they see the difficulties."
- Some people say, "I did it beautifully, why didn't I think of using this trick."
However, there are also oppositions. Some people think that she also ruined her home and killed one thousand enemies and harmed eight hundred of them.
Bystanders can be rational, but it is difficult for people who really encounter things to deal with them calmly.
There is a "stress response" in psychology. When we encounter emergencies, we can easily make impulsive coping behaviors. This method is also a way to protect ourselves.
Maybe silence can temporarily protect the family, but a man with a change of heart is simply unreliable.
Do you still remember Mrs. Song in " Snail House "?
She is a good wife, and for her husband's career, she is willing to take care of her daughter at home.
Mrs. Song always considers her husband. She obviously has a set of solid wood furniture, but she is worried that it will affect her husband's career, so she still bears the pain of giving up.
She would not know that in order to please Haizao, her husband took the initiative to give Haizao a villa and the same solid wood furniture.
Mrs. Song clearly knew that her husband was betrayed, but she never turned against her. For the sake of the integrity of her family, she threw away her teeth and swallowed her stomach. She even ran to persuade Haizao to let her leave her husband.
Seaweed was very nervous at first, but when she saw that Mrs. Song had no malice, she became arrogant and mocked Mrs. Song for not getting love, so she came to bully herself.
Seaweed is too much, but Mrs. Song’s pity is also self-inflicted.
She can think of a way out early to avoid falling into trouble.
The result of her enduring it was that she had nothing. At a critical moment, her husband gave Haizao 500,000 yuan from the house sold, and she didn't have any affection between husband and wife.
Mrs. Song always feels very insightful: " The watermelon I planted with hard work is about to mature, but it was taken away by someone even the melon and the flesh."
This is the sorrow of the original wife. If she cannot protect her family, she will become the person who is most hurt.
A netizen once posted a post asking: " has been married for 12 years and her husband has been betrayed for 5 years. Should I divorce?"
There is a "Lawyer Long Fei" below: " get money first."
Yes, life cannot be separated from money, and emotions are unreliable. Since you have lost it, there is no need to worry about gains and losses. Use existing resources to make money. It is not too late to talk about divorce after you have a certain amount of financial strength.
The counterattack experience of former colleague Sister Feng is a textbook.
She and her husband have been married for 14 years. Her son is in the fifth grade of elementary school. In order to better take care of her son, she resigned and went home to tutor her son for study.
When she was at work, Sister Feng dressed very delicately every day and matched her clothes very beautifully. After staying at home for a while, she gradually became lazy and often cleaned the room in her pajamas. Sometimes her husband complained that she was sloppy, but she didn't care and didn't care at all.
For a while, my husband worked overtime more times. Even when he went home, he hid in the study after dinner. Once, Sister Feng brought him tea. When she heard the low voice in the house, she couldn't help but put down her hand that was about to open the door.
stood at the door and listened for a while. Sister Feng realized that there was something wrong. She deliberately pushed the door in. Her husband was shocked and the phone in his hand fell down. His hesitant look further confirmed Sister Feng's guess.
Since then, Sister Feng no longer relaxed herself. She found a part-time job to keep herself busy and get an income while taking care of her son.
In addition, she quietly checked her husband's phone number and found a number with the notes "10086". She often talked at night, so she took care of it.
Sister Feng called this number with another mobile phone, deliberately saying that she was a courier and asked her to go downstairs to get milk tea. The other party hesitated for a moment, but it still came down. Sister Feng saw that she was a woman in her 20s, looking fair and gentle.
She knew it. After she went back, she collected evidence and found various excuses to ask her husband for money, and transferred all the money to her best friend. When the evidence was almost collected, she asked her husband if she still loved her?
The husband was stunned for a moment and replied, "Love! Of course I love!"
"My son is going to middle school, and I like a school district house, right on the experimental school, let's change the house." Sister Feng calmly asked.
The husband didn't know what she intended, but he also thought it was reasonable. He just wanted to change the school district house. It was still 500,000 yuan short of selling the old house. Sister Feng asked him to borrow it, and her husband nodded in agreement.
When buying a house, Sister Feng told her husband not to worry. She went to handle it alone, and the name she wrote was her own. When the house came down, her husband wanted to cash out with a house loan, but Sister Feng refused.
She just wanted to see . If her husband has no money, will that girl still love him?
The answer is no. When adults’ feelings are gone, they become very realistic.
The husband's salary needs to be paid back, so he has no money to buy gifts and send red envelopes for the girl. After a long time, the girl is unwilling to do so and asks him to divorce, which makes him embarrassed.
After struggling, the balance in her husband's heart was still inclined toward girls. He proposed divorce and asked for half of the property. Sister Feng had expected that one day, she would throw out a stack of evidence and tell her husband that she would either leave the house in vain or be ruined.
The result of the incident was that her husband left the house with his luggage. He thought he was running towards love, but he was penniless and was abandoned by the girl.
After Sister Feng settled her son, she returned to work. She told us: "Women must be calm when encountering things. No man is worthy of your grief. You can save some money in your hands. Even if you lose your marriage, life can continue to live."
is really sober in the world. She uses her calmness to protect her and her son's home, and also prevents herself from falling into trouble for the rest of her life.
The world of adults is not black or white. The relationship betrayal of husbands does not have to break up, but can also be eased.
Compared to sticking to broken feelings, women love themselves well, which is more worthy of attention.
If you are worthy of love, love deeply. On the contrary, it is better to let go and start another wonderful life.
What do you think about this? Do you think your husband should be forgiven for betrayal of his relationship?
