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The cause of the incident was: Ms. Weng from Jiangxi and her first love boyfriend Mr. Guo met unexpectedly after they separated for 9 years. At that time, they had divorced, and both parties also had a pair of children. After overcoming all kinds of difficulties, they remarried and rebuilt a new big family.
They believed that being able to reunite with their first love and being able to become a husband and wife can be regarded as a gift of life. Moreover, it is a thing worth celebrating to give their four children a complete home, so they happily posted all this on the Internet through photos and texts.
When they were full of excitement waiting for the overwhelming blessings of netizens, they were suddenly filled with basins of ice water.
Ms. Weng feels very wronged. Everyone doesn’t know each other, so it’s okay if they don’t bless me, why do you have such vicious insults? Is it okay to just be so shameful to others?
In fact, she was really right. "Shame others" is also an unavoidable level in human nature. It’s just that some people hide all this in their hearts and will not express it in words to others, while others are unhappy.
actually one thing Ms. Weng herself didn’t understand, that is: things that do not adapt to the general environment and human nature are difficult to be favored by the public. Although she and Mr. Guo were first in love, it had no effect on everyone's focus on the second marriage and remarriage with their children.
In people's conventional cognition, it is difficult for people who marry second marriage to take care of their children. They don't know how many days they can get together. Where can I say happiness? So they can't express their wishes against their will.
In addition, Ms. Weng underestimated the evil of human nature and overestimated her own charm. The online platform is not its own vegetable garden, and no one else has the right to interfere with it. It is a public platform. If you send things on it, you will make people make comments and comments.
"If you want to wear a crown, you must bear the weight." If you are willing to be proud, don’t be afraid of others’ comments. The so-called comments are naturally good and bad. You have to understand that you are not RMB. Why do everyone like you and everyone holds you?
is a parent, so don’t post everything online. If you post it, don’t have a glass heart.
If you want to show your love, you must have the courage and strong enough mental ability to welcome all kinds of good and bad voices on the Internet. (Of course, this different voice does not contain online violence, and we insist on boycotting online violence)
As an adult, if you want to avoid being told by irrelevant strangers, you must learn to "hide": my life and my happiness are only left to your future self to remember. There is no need to put it on the "street" for exhibition, and no one needs to witness it. In this way, there will naturally be no comments from others, and I will not add to those unnecessary troubles.
In fact, if you observe carefully, you will find that those who are truly happy in life will not tell everyone by "showing" the way, because they know that their happiness is in their hearts, not in others' mouths.
And those who often show their happiness are basically the same: one is that they have no idea whether this happiness is true or false, and they don’t know how long it will last. They feel that they will be more confident when they are praised by everyone; the other is that they show their expectations, which is a future expectation.
