It is not ruled out that some women start to reject their husbands. Sometimes they think it doesn’t matter without him. It’s better not to come back. My child and I are also good. When I come back, I feel very annoyed when I see him, and I already feel annoying. This is also the current situation of many families.
It’s okay if you don’t meet. When you meet, you don’t like each other. You always make noises, complain about each other every day, and start to hate each other. Seven Years Itch is particularly obvious. At this time, marriage will easily have problems. Men begin to pay attention to women outside, women begin to compare men outside with their husbands, and slowly the relationship between the two begins to cool down quickly.
Once you have opportunities and temptations outside, it will be difficult to grasp yourself well. Once you take the first step, there is no way to look back, which is really dangerous.
My marriage has been around for 19 years, but I have no feelings for a long time. I have been patient for the sake of my children. At present, I see that he not only has no love at all, but he is very annoying. It is not just annoying. I don’t know if this marriage should go down. I have a feeling of wanting to be liberated
We met on blind dates, and we got married less than two years after we met. At that time, I felt that our family conditions were quite similar. He was also very caring to me. It can be said that he did everything meticulously. I don’t know if it was moved or really fell in love with him. Everything went smoothly anyway.
The third year after getting married, we started to have conflicts and quarrels almost every day. What I hate the most is that he smokes, which is really annoying. Many times it is because of this problem. I don’t know how many times I quarrel. But I asked him to quit, but they just ignore it. They do whatever they want, and they are a little sloppy. If I don’t prepare the clothes for me, he will not take the initiative to change it, and even if I wear it for a month, he will not change it.
Sometimes the room is full of smoke, which is really unbearable. No matter what I say, it is useless. There is also the problem of taking a bath. I have to urge you every day. If you don’t have to make a noise, you won’t move. Even if you force yourself to wash, you will fool you and finish it in a few minutes. I don’t know how they wash it, but I feel like everything is perfunctory.
Let’s talk about housework, and they almost don’t do it. Even if they see garbage, they don’t know how to take it away. If I don’t say it, he will treat it as if he can’t see it. When it comes to cooking, you will hardly go to the kitchen unless you like to eat something, such as chicken, duck, fish, etc.
Home is automatic washing machine , but I never know how to do it. Every time I ask him to take out his clothes and hang them on, they really hang them on it for you. I don’t know how to open it. It’s so simple. When I got off work, I leaned on the sofa and started looking at my phone. The rest of the matter had nothing to do with him. I didn’t care about the child’s laundry and cooking. I just wanted to be an old man.
To be honest, I have been tolerated enough, everything is for the children, otherwise we might have been separated long ago, and I feel annoyed and very uncomfortable when I look at it. I just don't know that men are like this? Later I found out that it was not, it was just like my man.
I see some men who clean themselves up cleanly and have a sense of being unworldly. To be honest, whenever I see such a man, they are really moved, and they also speak with a gentlemanly demeanor. Look at this one in my house. She is sloppy every day and wears clothes she doesn't want to change, and never knows how to clean up herself.
driving a broken car and thinking about running to Didi, always saying that the houses have been reduced, that morning market food is very cheap, where the child goes to school, and he has a cigarette in his mouth, and there is nothing to do based on what he cares about me or things.
We have been separated for many years, and now we have stopped quarreling for a long time. I am really tired and ignore anyone. I have nothing to say. He is just a puppet. Maybe I am a little lacking in duty and always think about other people, but considering the child, I am a little confused.
Now I am just thinking, should I divorce and pursue the life I like? Go and pursue the person you love?
There are too many such families, and people often ask such questions, and many people are embarrassed to say it out, thinking that they are not a good woman. In fact, such people must have their own favorite goals outside, but they have not taken that step yet, so they are confused. So is this true love?
I want to ask if this is true love? I tell you, of course not. This is just a kind of pursuit of your own goals, rationalizing your wrong behavior and thinking about the person you like. Don’t ask if you can get a divorce, it’s absolutely OK, but don’t push your wrong behaviors that have an external mind onto a man.
No matter what crisis your marriage is, if you have this idea, you have a moral bottom line. Every man wants to be full of energy and wants to be tidy every day. In a man's heart, he is thinking about how to make money, how to make children live a good life, and put career first. If you can do what a man does, then you can do it.
Don’t say love at all times. Sometimes when you say love, when you see a clean and neat man, and say what you like to hear, most of them are the secretion of dopamine in your body. When the freshness passes, are you still sure that you will truly love this man? Are you sure that such a man is not disguised? Since you are not sure, don’t tell true love to men outside easily.
Living a life is not about eating, drinking and having fun, but about real life. What you face is the food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in life. No matter how perfect a man you think is outside, as long as you live together, you can't escape complaining, dislike each other, or quarrel and quarrel.
If you are still in marriage and think about the man outside now, this is also a betrayal of marriage. What kind of trust is there to say about this betrayal, it is just a temporary freshness. Such a man will act in front of you, and naturally he will act in front of others. Do you think it is reliable? All are adults, don't be too naive.
For a person who has reached middle age, life is a responsibility, and it also requires trust. What is needed is long-term companionship. Don’t go astray because your current life is not satisfactory and your temporary freshness. It is really not worth losing your current stable life.
Some people always dislike their lovers and find an excuse for their cheating. Or you just divorce, do whatever you want, and don’t cheat in marriage. Do you know what kind of behavior this is? It's just a robber and a thief. What kind of results do you think will happen to two people? They are all adults, so naturally they will understand without saying anything.
Speaking of this, you should be able to understand. If you just can’t be with your current husband, then choose to divorce, and no one will stop you. Don’t say your cheating so well, or live your life honestly, and there will be no perfect person in this world.
