Men are afraid that the woman they love will suffer, but they may not necessarily love a woman who will suffer with them.
is heartbreaking! This is a very realistic sentence, and it is also the most incomprehensible sentence: Why don’t the woman who suffers with you love her or even marry her?
But the correct understanding is that when a man truly loves a woman, he is afraid that the woman will suffer with him, and he is afraid that he will not be able to give the woman a good living conditions; but in turn, the woman who suffers with her may not love, and in the end he may not be with her.
Such love will be very regrettable!
Women are willing to suffer with the person they love, but men may not necessarily love a woman who suffers with the person they love. If they don’t love, they may not marry them.
But there is a saying: If you don’t accompany you when you set the sun, who are you when you make a comeback?
So, how should women choose?
accompany the person you love to endure hardships, bet that he will still love you as before when he is successful in his career, or will he be fine if he falls apart?
I chose the latter:
I also suffered hardships with the man I loved the most, but later I failed to start a business. I thought we had experienced so many hardships and would still never leave us and continue to make a comeback. I still stayed by his side and said words of encouragement.
But he later told me that I didn’t want me to accompany him anymore. He gambled on youth and time, and didn’t want me to endure hardships any more.
I told him: no matter how hard it is, it doesn’t matter. As long as you are with me, you are not afraid of failure. We will start over from scratch. I believe that one day we will be better and more successful than before.
But his words made me give up the idea of accompanying him to start a business again: a man is afraid of the woman he loves to endure hardship, but he may not necessarily love a woman who accompany her to endure hardship, and he may not necessarily marry her in the end.
After hearing this sentence, I was stunned. At that time, I thought to myself, I will accompany you with my youth and follow you with my experiences that I have never suffered. I have no regrets, just because I love you, and I have been a vow of all kinds. I will accompany you through everything to manage this relationship, and we will eventually achieve the right result.
I never thought that what I received was the sentence that I might not marry you after suffering with me. Well, I won’t bet anymore, and I won’t bet anymore. I can’t afford to bet. I’m afraid that we would not bet together even though we fell in love so much at the beginning, so I won’t bet anymore.
I would rather endure hardship by myself than accompany someone who will not necessarily end up with me.
Finally, the possibility of not being with you is:
- know each other well and feel that it is not suitable for couples, but only for partners.
- You are so outstanding, you have become a strong woman, and he thinks you should be suitable for a better man.
- You know too many things about him, and you are afraid that you will care too much and know his weaknesses. He needs a gentle and considerate person.
- successful men need a good wife, a woman who can help him at work, and a woman who can give him face at any time.
So, women, what do you think should choose?
Because of his words, I chose to give up suffering with him, so we finally parted ways.
Although we love each other, we will not work together and experience difficulties.
He is working hard where he wants to go, I am working hard where I am, we are all working hard and secretly leading the way.
Since you may not be able to work together, you might as well work together. You can’t forget your fighting spirit just because you are not with you.
But the ending is not certain, so it is also possible that he loves you more in the end
There are also many cases. If a woman is with a man to suffer, the man will love this woman more and more and be kinder to her.
Behind a successful person there will be a successful woman
For example: Jack Ma’s father and his wife Zhang Ying have been childhood sweethearts since childhood and have worked together to plan together. His wife has also accompanied him all the way. Whether he failed or succeeded in his business, his wife has always been by his side, silently supporting and encouraging.
and Liu Qiangdong and his wife, the silent support behind his wife.
For example, the current internet celebrity: Brother Xiao Yang, I don’t know this person. I heard from netizens that Mrs. Xiao Yang accompanied him through ups and downs, from nothing to something. Now, Brother Xiao Yang is very fond of Mrs. Xiao Yang.
Isn’t this really a love that many women envy. They accompany him to endure hardships and finally accompany him to grow old together!
Therefore, it depends on people. There are many people with affection and righteousness, and there are only a few who are unkind and unkind.
In fact, you may not love a woman who is serious about your hardships, nor may you marry her. It’s just a lie from some men!