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Excellent people may not be valuable, valuable people must be excellent. This is a covered up social phenomenon. Just imagine: there are many folk masters around us who are proficient in "playing, playing, singing, and singing", but they still live a relatively poor life because they are too focused on their personal growth - introverted growth, and ignore their own skills participating in the exchange of social value system - outgoing growth.
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"Heaven rewards hard work", "Only efforts can be rewarded", isn't these universal values? But why do you always find hope when you work hard? I believe many people have this kind of cognitive blind spot, because behind this is an invisible growth trap. To become a valuable person, you must uncover this cover and first understand the concepts of "introverted growth" and "outtroverted growth".
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"Introverted growth" is a growth activity that revolves around oneself, such as: getting up early, running, reading, etc.; "Extraverted growth" is a growth activity that revolves around the outside world, such as: writing, drawing, programming, etc. "Introverted Growth" is more inclined to itself, and is regarded as cultivating habits, which is a relatively private single path; while "outward Growth" is a positive cycle, which is regarded as creating skills, which is a two-way path . After another way, the crux of the problem was clear. "Introverted Growth" requires completely relying on willpower. It is easy to cause exhaustion due to excessive internal consumption and not directly produce external output. Adhering to these habits can only make us excellent people, but we cannot become valuable people. "Extra-increase" is an alternating cycle mode of "output-input". The value and height of the output are determined through the input, and the quality and effectiveness of the input content are selected through the output, dialectically unified. Therefore, when we pay too much attention to "introvert growth" and ignore "extrovert growth", we fall into the trap of growth - we work hard and study hard every day, but we have no results.
◢解
This is a cognitive level problem. If you can't see the sun, wouldn't it be a blind man touching the elephant? Whatever he touches is, will it cause endless harm? It is easy to cultivate habits, but it is also difficult to build skills! Habits can be high or low, tight or loose, and skills are all evaluated by the outside world. There is no ambiguity about whether it is possible or not.
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Improve cognitive level, identify directions, strive for progress with focus, and keep in mind the underlying logic of "introverted growth - cultivate habits" and "extroverted growth - build skills". Make a choice of the growth concept of ", focus on skills and assist habits, focus on output and input ", participate in the exchange of social value systems in a timely manner, and eventually become a valuable person.
