The opposite sex is together, no matter how deep the love is, the most unfavorable thing is to misunderstand and hurt each other. They hurt each other due to misunderstandings and finally reach the end of the fate. This is sad and regretful.
Just just as a woman forgot to promise her what she promised to the man because she was busy with work, the woman had apologized afterwards and was willing to give the man some compensation, but the man doubted the woman's sincerity, made a big deal, ignored the woman's sincere attitude that she wanted to make up for, felt that the woman looked down on herself and looked down on herself, so she neglected herself. Obviously, the man misunderstood the woman, which made the two of them feel estranged, and the relationship eventually became more and more dull.
If a man does not want to see such a result, he must know how to think from the perspective of others. Sometimes women say that men even blame men for not dislike men, nor do they look down on the man’s disheartenedness towards men, but “hate them without making a strong sense of steel”. This is a manifestation of women’s sincere dedication to men. In fact, if a woman has these manifestations, it is not that she looks down on you, but that she has given her heart to you. Do you understand everything?
1. Seeing that you are addicted to bad habits, I like to talk about you.
A woman who sees you smoking and drinking and hang out with good friends every day will not say a word. A woman who sees you being addicted to bad habits and giving up on yourself will not say a word. Is this true love?
Obviously, it is difficult for a woman who loves you to fall into depravity.
At this time, a woman who loves you will be disappointed. She will point out your faults, urge you to stay away from bad habits, encourage you to improve yourself, and encourage you to do something.
At this time, you may feel that your self-esteem is a little hurt, and you think that women point out your mistakes and get involved in your affairs, just look down on you, have opinions about you, and don’t love you enough.
The more you think randomly, the more you are troubled. Perhaps you feel depressed that you are not recognized by women. However, if you listen to the woman and think about whether she is telling the truth, whether the purpose of her saying these words is sincere for your good, and whether it is sincere for the common life of the two of you.
If a woman is doing your good from the bottom of her heart, she also hopes that your common life will become better and better. This shows that women care about you very much and really value you. She treats you as her own person, and she really cares about you. At this time, if you misunderstand and blame the other party, it shouldn’t be possible.
2. I think you are stupid and can’t do anything, so I will do it for you.
In life, some men have relatively fragile self-esteem. Every time women say they are "stupid" and can't speak; every time women say they can't do things, they think they are clumsy; at this time, men feel that women look down on themselves and have opinions about women.
At this time, men should reflect on themselves, first think about whether what the woman said is the truth, and then think about whether the woman is malicious in saying these words. If a woman has no malicious intention and is full of kindness, men should not misunderstand the woman.
Some men have low emotional intelligence and always talk nonsense when dealing with others. Women think men are "stupid" and help men talk. Some things are good for men. Men can't do well, but women can do well. At this time, women do the men on their behalf and help men do things. At this time, women say and do everything for men. This is a signal that women care about men. Men should not misunderstand women, so as not to cause unnecessary troubles.
