This question has troubled me for a long time. I don’t understand why a good relationship is easily abandoned just because of some of the opinions of the people around me. Do Chinese men really mind marrying Japanese women as their wives?
He is a Shandong native. In 2013, we first met in Japan. At that time, he worked in Osaka, Japan. He was a little dark, but very strong and loved to laugh. The smile was a silly type, which made people feel good. This is my first impression of him. I studied in Shandong, China for a few years, so Chinese is barely OK, and daily communication is not a problem. He seems to be in a bad way, and simple communication is not possible. So the first time we met, it was inexplicable.
At that time, I was very sunny. He was in the public electricity service. The hang Ting called his family. It seemed that the machine had a malfunction and the dialing connection failed. I happened to buy something there. I vaguely heard someone speak Chinese (it seemed to be a Chinese national treasure, haha). Because I knew a little Chinese, I went up and tried to ask in Chinese,
"Do you need any help?"
He seemed very surprised, probably because I was surprised that I could speak Chinese. (Later he said, I suddenly realized that I was not a Chinese because the tone of foreigners speaking Chinese was very strange, haha).
so we met and started our first communication. With my help, we also successfully called the phone to our family. When I bought the things and prepared to come out, he was over, and then he took the initiative to ask me for contact information. In fact, it was very impolite in Japan. It was very strange to meet for the first time. My first thought was to refuse, but I said my contact information with disobedient words. I was also surprised afterwards. Could it be that this is love at first sight, haha, I can't explain clearly
is quite cute
This was taken by him for me☺️
This was found out that he had just come to Japan to work in a mechanical unit. In fact, many Chinese people come here to work in physical work with relatively low technical level. After all, language is also one of the obstacles
Because I am studying in China, I have come into contact with many Chinese boys. They compare Japanese men are excellent, and they may have less money than Japanese men, but the simple, down-to-earth, honest and sincere attitude of Shandong men attracted me very much, so I told him the contact information, haha
This is the first time I showed my cooking skills to me in a rental house
0. This is what I did in the middle, and I forgot what I called it. Haha Ha
slowly came into contact with me, and I gradually fell in love with this Shandong man who smiled at me. I told myself in my heart that this should be the man I like. Although he has a low education, only high school education, and sometimes he is a little unhygienic, these can be ignored for a woman who is trapped in love. Falling in love with someone means falling in love with everything about him. Education does not represent ability, but a person's good character is in the bones. He loves reading and sports, which is very similar to my hobbies, so we have more topics. Every time we meet, we have a pleasant exchange. Gradually, I can feel that he fell in love with me. From his eyes, I can see it and feel
stayed here for the first time
On a very tacit day, we confessed to each other...
He said that when his visa work is over, I want me to go back to China with him to live, and we look forward to a better life in the future. In fact, I like China, unlike Japanese students, I want to have a love for my life. The pace of life is so fast, and there are so many beautiful scenery in China. The most important thing is that he has
The first gift I gave me
In the days to come, I would do as much as possible to make some delicious food for him and buy some health products on his rest days. After all, the food in the factory is not so rich. Chinese people like to eat meat, while in Japan it is seafood, and there are more soups. Although the nutrition is also very balanced, I am worried that he will not adapt to it when he is so tired of work. I will do my best to make him adapt to life here. These are what I should do.
He said that I am more cute with short hair
If it weren't for a conversation between their family, I think we would have been together all the time. Once he was on a phone call with his family and he told his family about us. I didn't hear it, but I just heard him refute his family that Japanese women would like to be like that on TV... At that time, I didn't know what "waving" means. Later, he saw me coming over, his expression was also very unnatural, and his voice gradually became smaller, but I didn't interrupt him. When he hung up the phone, I naturally pretended not to hear it. In fact, I cared about his family's views. After all, China and Japan did not explain it clearly in one sentence in one sentence, and I could understand all of these. I would give his family time to accept me slowly, and I was also prepared. There are too many things to do after
, and I can't explain it clearly. This matter is like a fuse. Gradually, our relationship begins to become a bit subtle. Sometimes, he clearly has a rest day, but he tells me that he needs to work overtime or temporarily work overtime. In fact, I know that because there are several times when I wait for him to come out in his factory area, and I have seen him walk back to the dormitory... There are too many things in the middle of
, including happiness, sadness, reluctance, and grievances and discomforts... After so many years, we have met in China during this period, and he has also come to Japan to find me. I am still remembering him in my heart, thinking about him, and waiting for him.
