I will. In life, there are many people who always feel that the marriage is as happy as they imagine. So when they encounter a little family conflict, they feel that their marriage is unhappy and that their lover is useless, and they will have the idea of divorce. If at this time, there is an extramarital affair outside, coupled with the other party's sweet words and vows, he feels that he has found true love and happiness. However, some people have repeatedly weighed the pros and cons of their children, and finally chose to continue their marriage for the sake of their children.
But there are still some people who were blinded by the fantasy of a happy marriage, and eventually abandoned their children and chose to divorce! However, these people actually do not understand the essence of marriage. What is marriage? Marriage is a couple living together, facing oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, pots and pans, facing making a living together, facing the trivialities and contradictions of life, and ignore anyone's marriage.
Most divorced people in life end up regretting! They found that after remarrying, a new marriage is just like this, and sometimes it is not as good as a native marriage! The latter is not as good as the ex. Since it is a half-way group family, if both parties have children in the past, it must be the family that quarrels with each other and conflicts are endless. It is simply hell on earth. Life is worse than death, so what is the purpose of happiness? But who are you blaming? This is what you asked for! Just suffer as much as you like!
So, love is sweet and marriage is dull. Don’t think too ideal about marriage. If it is too ideal, you can only look for Jack Ma , Liu Qiangdong, and other rich bosses, they will give you food and clothing! But these people can't give you sweet love, why? You should know.
In the world, generally speaking, marriage is better! Because, the original marriage is a seamless whole that integrates the relationship between husband, wife and children; yours is mine, and mine is yours; the child is biological, your child is also my child, and my child is also your child, and the family is emotionally integrated, without distinction between each other.
But remarried families are different. They are between each other, yours is yours, mine is mine, your children are your children, my children are my children, there are gaps in the heart, cracks in the emotions, and it is difficult to integrate feelings. In this way, the family will never form a seamless and perfect whole of emotional integration! But it can only be a family, together, half-hearted, divided, and each has its own ulterior motives! In the end, we quarrel about children, for their own interests, for trivial matters, and for quarrel! In such a family, you can only suffer, be depressed, and be depressed! How about happiness!
I would like to advise everyone again to avoid divorce for the sake of their children. Once you give up your children to divorce, the hatred of your children for you will not be eliminated for the rest of your life. Even if you make up for this affection in the future, it will be useless. Because there have been cracks in blood ties, it will never be restored! Remember to remember!
