How often do you find yourself saying “I hate people”? ! There is no special reason for hatred, and it may even be a specific person, not even your friends.
I occasionally say such things...as if I am disappointed with all humanity...
The expectation value is too high
Our high expectations for others will affect how we view and evaluate them. We want others to understand us—our character, thought, emotion, emotion and motivation. We believe they will agree with us and do everything the way we want. Obviously, people will not live up to these high expectations.
Fear of others
We are often afraid of people who are different from us. We tend to hate others when someone holds other perspectives, values, opinions, beliefs, mentality. Just because we can't identify with these people. We consider them potentially dangerous and would rather stay away from them.
Self-doubt
When we feel unsafe and cannot accept our own shortcomings, we start to deal with this insecurity by blaming and hating others. We tend to hate things that we cannot accept in others. This is a defense mechanism for our hearts.
Low emotional intelligence and lack of empathy
People who cannot put themselves in other people's positions are more likely to hate the people around them. When we have our own ideas about how things should be, it can be difficult for us to accept and understand other people's opinions. We cannot feel or understand what they are going through from other people’s perspectives.
Lack of self-sympathy
When you lack compassion for yourself, you will not have compassion for others. As you practice self-compassion, you start to accept who you are, which gives you the opportunity to accept others without feeling the need to change them or dislike them.
- As you may have noticed, hatred towards others often occurs because of your own dissatisfaction. So in order to deal with hatred, you need to start with yourself!
