I found that some people care very much about other people's opinions, and will listen carefully to what others say, making themselves very hard.
Others say what the meaning of chasing stars is, and you start to doubt whether loving this is wasting your time. Is it funny? You start to reflect on whether your laughter is too low. Others say how anyone likes to draw blind boxes. You start to check whether your hobbies are deviant. Others say that staying up late is overdrawing your life in disguise, and you start to think deeply whether people really can’t have their own world.
As of today, the total population of the world is nearly 8 billion. Among these people, some of them are you will never be exposed to in your life, some are not interested in you, and some are not interested in what you do, some are just met by passers-by, only very small, and the negligible part is that you will scold you no matter whether you do it, what you do, or how you do it.
Do you understand that there is such a person in this world who doesn’t want you to have a good life. They hope you will cry every day and reflect on yourself every day: Did I do something wrong? Is there any problem with my liking? Could it be that I have not integrated into this society?
. If you have thought about this for even a second, please stop immediately and remember that if the police do not arrest you, then there is no problem with your likes. If the regulations do not explicitly prohibit it, then you can continue to stick to your likes.
When the rain falls, others walk into the house and you choose to walk out, sit in front of the window and watch a cloud floating, lying on the bed with your lover to compete with whom the fart, order takeout in a hotel in another city, sleep until two or three o'clock in the afternoon, eat and play, like whispering to kittens and dogs, like junk food, like sleeping half naked, like tightening curtains, like turning on the air conditioner and drilling into the quilt, there is no problem, no problem.
No one stipulates that a flower must grow into sunflower or rose. No one stipulates that a road must be straight forward or winding. So when it is time to be happy, you should be happy, and if you like, you should devote your energy to doing things you like. The sounds from the outside world are noises, and the noise can be heard, or you can not take it seriously at all.
