Everything is the best to be moderate, too much is still too little.
People and things should be just right, moderately decent, leave room for room for each other, and have some warmth to support their thoughts and concerns. It seems that they still cherish and care, and it seems that they have always had the warmth and texture of love, and have never lost their direction because of time.
A woman can truly love a man, but she cannot love him too deeply. Deep love for women is a kind of regret, which means that excessive dedication and sacrifice to a man is always in a state of conscience and tolerance, and express recognition and tolerance for some of his strange attitudes and behaviors. In such a situation, once a habit is developed, it is the cheapness in the man's heart, which directly reflects some regrets to fate. For example, a man completely controls the relationship between the two, and a woman is always in a passive and humble identity.
Sense is not about being docile or being concise and forbearance, but about being decent and generous, able to get along with wisely, but never loses principles and bottom line, always maintaining the seriousness and concentration of love, leaving enthusiasm and persistence for deep affection.
Too sensible is a kind of selfless sacrifice and dedication, overdrawing yourself to fulfill others, giving up yourself and cherishing others. Such situations can only happen occasionally, but they cannot be compatible in reality.
If a woman is too sensible, then men will have these inner dramas, with few exceptions: First, she is easy to cheat, and even if she does not give in, she will be able to accompany her; Second, she is completely kind and without any sharpness or defense, and is a woman that anyone can hurt with a little thought. If they are lucky, they will meet men who cherish them. If they are unlucky, they will meet men who take advantage of the situation. Not on purpose, but when they meet people who are weaker than themselves, they will always have some arrogance and advantages; Third, they cannot see the truth and cannot find the answer, and are always confused in the world, expressing confusion and entanglement of the world.
Men will love the women they think are worthy of, and will cherish the women they give more, but they will show squander and indifference to a generous and sensible woman. Whether you say unfair or inequality, in short, feelings are willing to choose one who is willing to beat and one who is willing to be beaten and be beaten, and no one has to complain or complain. It is the practice of life to live without regret.
Most men don’t cherish women who are too sensible
【01】
is too good to men
There is a saying in life: Going up is not a business.
The relationship between people is the same. As long as you are too enthusiastic and active, too proactive and generous, others will always feel that you are strange, just like being cheap and humble to please. Even if you are just kind and enthusiastic, others are not you, and they cannot have the same realm and cognition as you. There are always some things that are alienated and unfamiliar with each other, and they all have some thoughts.
The simple manifestation of a woman being too sensible is actually that she is too good to men, always considers too much for men, always considers everything for men, and always guarantees everything for men, which leads to a man's attitude that has to be indifferent, as well as a lazy and negligent state of mind. It seems that you are there, what else will he give? There is no need for more effort and investment, just because you are there.
The regrets in many fates are not the mistakes and letting one side of the man, but the woman is too affectionate and always puts a lot of enthusiasm and seriousness before the man, giving affection and warmth. This makes men unconsciously ignore and consume, forgetting love requires response and cherishing, and love requires feedback and management.
【02】
After the conflict, I always show my weakness
always wants to win, which is a common mistake women make in love.
We can strive to be the first in our lover or lover's heart, but we really don't have to rush to become the key to contradictions and disputes. A woman's tenderness and charm should exist between ease, tranquility, patience, and more understanding and understanding. We cannot just think about the protagonist of love, the first in marriage, and other identities. If a woman wants real and long-term happiness, the best posture is to learn to wait, be able to enjoy loneliness, and find her own happiness and happiness in loneliness.
The situation of happiness and happiness through the help of the opposite sex is almost a minority, or rather pitifully rare.
If a woman cannot find value and meaning through her own life, or implement happiness and happiness through her own efforts and pursuits, then any fate will be the beginning of regret.
When encountering conflicts with each other, women can't help but show weakness or seek peace. This is a taboo and a sign of spoiling men. In a man's heart, he will not think that you cherish this relationship very much, nor will he think that you are gentle and considerate, but he will believe that you cannot live without him. It is impossible to be without him at all. All your beauty must be placed on him.
Women must have a dual independence of personality and economy, and learn to be polite with the world, so that men can truly care and cherish it.
【03】
Sacrifice yourself to make a man
The most important thing for a woman to care for and respect in her life is not anyone, but herself.
Too many women always put men first in their lives in love, but they regard men as the focus of blows and criticism in ordinary times. In fact, he is still the same as him, but he just doesn't want to perform anymore.
When a man is unwilling to even perform, the woman is really tired and painful. At this moment, she is already deeply and sincere in love, but on the other hand, the man doesn't care at all, completely forgetting the oath and agreement, and forgetting the love and fate of the two. Even if the woman makes trouble, he doesn't care about it, and he doesn't care about it. Anyway, what she deserves has already been obtained, and he will not add enthusiasm and seriousness.
The more a woman sacrifices herself to achieve a man, the more a man will feel that this woman is worth using and controlling. Because there are benefits to be explored, everything can be maintained and continued on the basis of reality.
To give a lot for love is not a bad thing, but there is always a moderation and decisiveness. You cannot sacrifice yourself too much, nor can you lose yourself too affectionately. The more you forget yourself for love, the more likely a woman is to be held in the palm of her hand by a man. How he changes you will let you down.
The man who loves you with his heart will respect you, and the man who loves you in reality will be cheap and change you for his use.
