People have "desire" , and "desire" also provides a continuous driving force for our continuous pursuit. In this materialistic society, some people can control their "desire" well and move forward, while others blindly pursue them too much makes them tired, and the people around them are also tired.
should have a common life philosophy for a family formed by two people, but there are always regrets that they are not synchronized in real life. When the wife’s desire for pursuit is not satisfied, the balance of life will not be balanced.
NO.1: Blind "comparison desire" makes the honest husband miserable;
Yaoyao is very beautiful, and she often participates in various social events. Friends are never stingy in praise of Yaoyao, and her husband also feels very face-saving. Yaoyao has made many rich "best friends", but her husband's career is in its infancy and does not have much capital accumulation. In order to give Yaoyao enough face in front of those "best friends", Yaoyao has never refused any requests.
After a long time, Yaoyao's vision is getting higher and higher. Generally, bags worth 350,000 yuan are not favored at all, but the expenses of hundreds of thousands are really hard to bear. One time, two people went out to shop, Yaoyao saw a bag of bags. Her husband had just bought them two days ago and refused to consume them. The two even had a big fight over this. The husband now doesn't know where to go, and how long their marriage can last.
NO.2: Excessive "pursuing desire" makes working-class husbands exhausted;
Tongtong and her husband have been married for two years. Both of them are civil servants in their county. It can be said that their living conditions are good, but their wife likes to collect "figures" together, and they have reached the level of obsession. Most of the family income is used by their wife to buy rare "figures". I have quarreled with Tongtong many times and they ended up badly. The children are growing up, the parents are getting older, and there are more and more places to spend money in life. My husband is very upset about this.
NO.3: Emotional "consumption desire" makes the whole family's income less than the monthly income;
Jingjing is a girl who looks very tight and does not care about wearing it normally, but when she opens her wardrobe, she will find that there are many big-name clothes inside and almost never wear them. To outsiders, it seems that it is "not showing off her money", but her husband knows that those clothes are the result of impulsive consumption when Jingjing is excited. Every time Jingjing is unhappy, he will buy a lot of expensive items. When he buys them, he just puts them in the wardrobe window. Her husband even thought that she had mental problems at one time.
