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In fact, as the person involved, you are very clear whether a man loves you.
But sometimes I just don’t want to believe it, thinking that the two still have room for improvement, and don’t want to end this relationship that I have given so much.
Of course, there is also the fear of separation and the confusion of the unknown. These things will become factors that affect choice.
But if a man’s words and deeds are all despised by you, it means he only dislikes you and no love, so don’t struggle anymore.
You should know that feelings are a matter between two people, and you cannot continue to move on with your wishful thinking.
Even if you can think that you don’t know anything at this moment and immerse yourself in the self-woven love dream, sooner or later you will wake up from your dream, and by that time, you will lose more.
Many times, you are unwilling to let go, not because you are so happy when you are with him, but because the cost of sunk makes you unable to accept failure so calmly.
But you have to tell yourself that you are not lacking as a man, but a soul that can be harmonious with you. He can understand what you mean, and he also feels sorry for your desire to speak but stops.
In this long journey of life, only the person who understands you is the warmest. He will face the vicissitudes of the world with you, rather than hitting you high above and treating you as a grass that is humble to the dust.
In fact, love is the most unconcealable thing. If you have been loved by him, then you will soon understand it if there is a slight change in his heart.
Three women use their most realistic feelings to tell you: Only when men start to dislike you will treat you like this, don’t not know.
Wu Yulin, 25 years old, video auditor: When a man frequently disconnects from you, it means that he no longer loves you, without exception.
My ex-boyfriend and I have been together since college. After graduation, we went to work in different cities, but we were not far away.
I just thought, wait until I work for a while and save some money, and then go to his city, so we will be closer.
At the beginning, we would make voice calls every night to chat about some things, and if we really had nothing to say, we would play games together for a while, anyway, we wouldn't be in a mess.
If he really has something to do, he will send me a WeChat message in advance and will not let me wait.
But the good times didn't last long, and this situation slowly changed. He didn't reply much to the message I sent, even if it was a reply, it was a long time later.
At night, I wanted to call him a video, but he also said he was very busy and had no time to accompany me, so he asked me to go to bed early.
One day, he even told me not to call in the future, because he had to be busy at night and had no time to answer.
I tried it once and called it but I really didn't answer it.
Every day, I take the initiative to contact him, hoping that when he is not busy, I can take the time to send me a message, and I am so crazy.
However, when I saw him chatting and laughing in the class group, but our dialog box has not updated its content for three days, my heart was really uncomfortable.
In an instant, all the grievances and anger surged into my heart, and I cried all night. After many inquiries, I realized that he was having an ambiguous relationship with a woman, entering and leaving the company.
Liu Xuemei, 29 years old, full-time wife: As long as a man is too cold to you, he has actually changed his mind. He just feels troublesome and afraid of the price, so he doesn't take the initiative to say the end.
My husband works in another place and has very little time to meet, and they all communicate through the Internet.
Since he got married to him, he has no other holiday except for him having taken more than a month of marriage leave.
Even when I was pregnant, he couldn't be with me. By the time he came back, the child was over one year old.
Although I live in another place, I still cherish it very much. I often send bacon and local specialties from my hometown so that he can eat better.
One summer vacation, I took my child to see him and lived in a very simple hotel. I felt very distressed to see that his working environment was so hard.
But when I met that time, I found that he was not very enthusiastic about me. I wanted to hug him, but he also hugged the child and hid it.
I thought at the time that I must have been separated for too long and were unfamiliar with each other, so this scene happened.
has been there for more than a month, and there is really very little time for us to get close relatives. One reason is that the child is there, and the other reason is that he always hides from me. I am a woman, so I am embarrassed to be too proactive, so I never mentioned it again later.
After he came back with his child, he rarely sent me messages on his own initiative. I asked him and replied, and there was nothing else. After
, I learned from a fellow villager that their work there is half a month off every year, and they can go home to see their wives and children. He wonders why my husband is so busy.
It turns out that he didn’t have a holiday, he just didn’t spend the holiday on me, but I was just kept in the dark.
He Ziling, 27 years old, company administration: A man doesn’t love you anymore, even his body will resist, this is true.
My boyfriend and I have developed to the stage of getting married, so I trust him very much and think he will not lie to me, but the facts prove that I was wrong.
Once, I "forced" him and me to go out for a trip, and his abnormality was manifested.
After a day of driving, we were all a little tired and lay down on the bed after taking a shower.
I turned my head and wanted to rest on his shoulder, but he didn't want to, so he pulled his hand out.
At that time, my heart skipped a beat, but I still thought he was too tired.
The next day, we went out to eat local specialties and visited scenic spots. We didn’t rush to the hotel until 8 o’clock in the evening.
When I returned to the hotel, I wanted something to happen because we usually spend too little time together.
When I came out in my pajamas after taking a shower, I found that he was already lying on the bed and "slept", but I knew he was not sleeping.
At that moment, my heart was mixed and I didn’t know what to do. I lay beside the bed, separated from him for a distance.
After I went back, I expressed my thoughts to cancel the wedding, and he easily agreed.
It turns out. He really doesn't love him anymore, only I am still trapped in the past.
Time and Emotional Class:
How can a man loves you, how can he bear to hurt you? He knows what to do will make you happy and what to do will make you sad.
If he insists on doing something that makes you sad, it means he doesn't care about you at all and there is no other reason.
Men neglect you, frequently break off contact, and are unwilling to have close contact. This is all evidence that you don’t love you.
Stop deceiving yourself. A person’s efforts cannot make the boat of love sail far away. Since he no longer loves him, his eyes are full of disgust for you. Why should you go up and please?
There are many good men in this world that suit you, don’t go to the dark side on the same road.
