Text/An Dongyue
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Have you ever waited for anyone?
Wait for him to think of you, contact you, greet you, or wait for him to say he loves you and wants to be with you.
"Waiting" is half expectation and half nervous. Expectations are always beautiful, and even if you just think about it, you will involuntarily raise the corners of your mouth. However, expectations are just expectations, imagination is just imagination. If it cannot come true, it will only bring higher expectations, and the greater the disappointment, so it will be uneasy and difficult to calm down.
read a sentence: "I hate waiting for everything that needs to be waited for, such as waiting for the green light, waiting for the bus, waiting for the rain to stop, but I am waiting for you."
Many things in life have to wait, and most of them can be waited for. For example, the green light will definitely be on, the bus will definitely come, and the rain will definitely stop. But, what about love? Can love be waited for?
No, no one is sure whether love can be waited. Those who are persistent in waiting are reluctant to let go because they use their love too deeply, so they have been looking forward and waiting. As for whether you can wait, it's just going with the flow.
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In fact, what love needs is not waiting, but chasing.
When you fall in love with someone, if you just wait silently instead of chasing them bravely, you are destined to miss it and become a regret for your life.
Since love needs pursuit, why are there so many people choosing to wait?
Although I clearly love you deeply, I choose to wait, and there must be a last resort. Maybe the person you love has something to do and love is something to do, but I am just the extra one who can do nothing but wait.
Or, I have chased and had, but I lost it later, and I couldn't calm down. I had some expectations. I didn't want to continue my previous relationship, but I just wanted to be a little gentle.
is like her. Even though she knows that it is impossible with him, she still nostalgic for his tenderness. She is reluctant to break off contact with him and looks forward to him chatting with her on his own initiative.
When I miss him, I go to his circle of friends. Sometimes I can't help but want to send him a message. After hesitating, I'd better forget it, for fear of disturbing him. She would rather wait silently, and wait until he suddenly remembered her and contacted her.
The feeling of waiting is unspeakable bitterness. If it weren’t for the need, who would really be willing to wait passively?
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"Lost, nostalgic, I am waiting for the flowers to bloom in my dream, waiting for you to come."
Waiting is silent affection; waiting is the most silent love.
Sometimes, if you wait for too long, your heart will get colder and colder. In the end, you will die completely. You will no longer hold any hope, and only endless sadness will be left.
When you go through the process from disappointment to despair, you will know how tormenting waiting is.
It is precisely because waiting is too bitter and difficult to endure that when a person is willing to wait for love, it seems so moving.
In "He Yisheng Xiaomo", He Yichen waited for Zhao Mosheng for seven years; in "The Legend of Condor Heroes", Yang Guo waited for Xiaolongnu for sixteen years; in "Liuli Beauty", Zihu waited for Wuzhiqi for a thousand years...
Although these are TV series, all the stories about waiting can always touch many people. It can be seen that the more miserable the waiting is, the more beautiful and moving it is.
There is a kind of love called waiting.
Wait, flowing gently in time; waiting, slowly settles in the years.
Waiting is infatuation, waiting is long-lasting love, waiting is a person making a long dream.
When you wake up from a dream, it is sadness and joy, all of which are God's will.
If, you are also silently waiting for someone, I hope you can wait in the end. From then on, I have resolved my regrets and no longer been sad alone.
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, writes heartfelt words with warm strokes, and I wish to meet you in the deepest world. Welcome to follow.
