We are talking about love today. I hope that no matter what you are now, you will eventually reap the long-lasting and happy love.
Understanding hormone
The word hormone is actually very broad. I only have a narrow understanding and definition here:
The sexual association and the resulting admiration and the driving force for implementing the pursuit.
This state may be more obvious in men. The most rogue example is that the Cowherd hides the Weaver Girl's clothes. But this is by no means a man's patent. In " Siege ", Ms. Bao thought it was easy to seduce men, but in the end she was seduced by men. Fang Hongjian Because he was fiancé who looked like Miss Bao, he happily exercised his fiancé's power without taking on his fiance's obligations.
It can be seen from this that hormones are just a physical reaction, and they are still a thousand miles away from "love". At best, they are just a prerequisite for the generation of love.
The first thing a man needs to solve for a girl is physical needs, and then psychological needs. Physiological needs are simple, that is, sexual, psychological needs are very complex, but that is love.
In other words, "flirting" and "reverse flirting" are a process of mutual exploration.
In this process, women either tighten their belts or enjoy sex. Never use sex to prove love, nor do they use sex to exchange love, nor do they use sex to blackmail love.
Concept determines attitude
Many breakup lovers and divorced couples, will be summarized into four words: disagreement of views!
But this thing is very abstract and it is difficult to distinguish , especially when you are confused by the other party's "humidity".
A person's attitude towards the opposite sex can basically reflect his "pursuit". Some men are very narcissistic. If a woman looks at him more, he will feel admired by and is very interested in keeping an ambiguous relationship with many women. Some men enjoy spreading the thighs of all kinds of women. The sun shining on the earth can bring him a great sense of accomplishment.
Many sweet loves will gradually become weak, and many happy couples will gradually become cold, mostly because of lack of communication. Communication is the best way to find problems and resolve conflicts.
Women often complain to men: I was angry, he ignored me, I was not relieved, he was fine, but the problem was not solved, he was just escaping.
In fact, my wife is easy to coax, it depends on whether you want it or not.
Keep personality independent
Native family plays a decisive role in shaping a complete and independent personality.
is most obvious in the process of love. In other words, there is always a process between men and women from acquaintance, getting to know each other and falling in love, and there is always a difference between morning and evening and speed of entering the state.
No matter how much you fall in love with at first sight, don’t rely on the other person’s feelings: you still have work and life, you still have friends and best friends, you should give the other person enough time and space until the other person finds that you have shining points that make him admire.
For example, a man, even if you fall in love at first sight, don’t rush to bring the other person to the bed. For women, the prerequisite for being lovers is to be friends (except for dry firewood).
For example, if a woman, even after sleeping with a man, you still have a detached attitude and still enjoy a colorful life, will inspire the man to continue exploring until he reaches the level of being attached to you.
In short, hormones are the physiological basis for men and women's interactions; conceptual identity is the psychological basis for the stability of love; personality independence is a necessary prerequisite for both parties to enter marriage and a necessary factor in maintaining family stability.
I think the most ideal love is - is based on the attraction between the two sexes, with mutual attachment as the process, and mutual support as the result.
