chat today Cao Yu talked about something when she was a child. At that time, she was probably the first grade in elementary school or the lower grade in junior high school, and she was over ten years old because she liked playing the piano and didn’t have it at home. One day, her mother took her to school. There was a piano in the school, so she said she could play for a while and then went home at noon. Afraid that she was hungry, she prepared some food and water for her.
result. It was late at night. Her mother came home after work, but found that there was no one at home. She waited and didn't see her coming back. She said what was going on? It was already 8 o'clock in the evening, and it was dark for a while, so I was in a hurry and ran out to look for it. He said, "Where can you be? You won't be in school, right?" So he ran to school again.
As a result, when I arrived at the piano room, I heard the sound of the piano coming from the piano room. So her mother ran in quickly and saw her vague shadow playing the piano in the darkness, and then her mother quickly turned on the light. According to Cao Yu, when the light lit up, she was shaking her eyes at once, and then she jumped out of the piano and from the one immersed in playing the piano.
It turned out that her mother came to find her. She realized that it was dark. She played the piano from the morning until 8 o'clock in the evening. She didn't take a bite of rice or drink a sip of water. It was equivalent to playing the piano for more than ten hours without moving. She said herself that she felt that she had just come here, and she sat down and bounced, and then bounced happily, bounced, bounced... Suddenly, the lights turned on, and she found that her mother was looking for her, and realized that so long had passed.
It seemed that I had no sense of time at that time, no sense of time, and I didn't even notice that it was getting dark. After the lights were on, I found that there was a lot of blood on the keyboard. Why is there blood? At this time, she found that it was her fingers. Because she had been playing the piano, they had been grinding bubbles, and the bubbles were worn out again, so the keys were covered with blood flowing out of her fingers.
At this time, she realized that her fingers were very painful and could not touch anything. In other words, she only focused on playing the piano, and it seemed that the vision was no longer effective, and she would not notice that it was dark; pain was no longer effective, and her fingers didn't know that it hurt; it seemed that only hearing was moving, listening to her own piano sound. She recalled the process of
and felt it was very pleasant and happy because she was immersed in the beautiful music, forgetting time and forgetting everything.
Let's talk about this. If I tell others, we assume there is another family who especially wants their children to learn piano well and then take the exam to get a grade, so that they can become musicians in the future, or at least go to college to get extra points. If their children are not diligent enough in practicing piano, the parent may tell the story to their children, saying, "Look, if you want to learn piano well, you need to be diligent, be willing to endure hardship, and be not afraid of hardship or fatigue. Look at Cao Yu, when she is playing the piano, she can play for ten hours a day, without eating food, drinking water, and then her fingers are broken, and she continues to play. What a perseverance and not afraid of hardship."
If a parent says this to her child, the child must hate Cao Yu to death, or the child must think it is too terrible. Learning piano. This is true for the piano, and so for many other things.
so when I was a child, I particularly hated the saying " The sea of knowledge is endless and hard to make a boat ", and I also disliked the "stories of some scientists' diligent research." Because I think those scientists are so diligent in researching, not because they endure great pain and then do research diligently. In fact, they are like Cao Yu who is very happy in the piano. They are very happy, addictive, and like them very much.Then they can do something that seems to be extremely hardworking and extremely diligent in others, so that they can achieve some great achievements.
If you tell him that this matter is very hard, but you must endure this pain, I think few people have such great self-control and then let themselves endure this pain.
If we really want a person to do something very devotedly, what we really need is: First, this thing itself is what he likes, which is more consistent with his talent. Second, we must find ways to arouse his interest and make him feel that he will like this matter. Only in this case can he be willing to suffer a little for this matter.
If he really likes it, he will be willing to suffer a lot of hardships for this matter. Well, it can't be said to suffer a lot, because he didn't feel it, just like Cao Yu played the piano for ten hours and didn't feel it hurt when his fingers broke.
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