Modern society, as more and more people enter cities, and with the influence of one-child policy , more and more people feel lonely and indifferent after entering society.
We cannot have many relatives like our parents, even five or six brothers and sisters, and there are more cousins. In the past, this network of relationships composed of blood ties was the most important interpersonal relationship in our lives. All kinds of interpersonal interactions revolve around blood ties between far and near.
But now, not only has the number of relatives decreased, but under the influence of modern concepts, relatives seem to have become a negative word. There are a lot of jokes about various relatives on the Internet, and some of them can simply shake people's views after reading them.
After the relatives are gone, people themselves are social animals. After the original social relationship network disappears, there will inevitably be emerging relationship networks, because people must embed themselves in a certain relationship to gain a sense of security.
Classmate relationships, colleague relationships, and cooperative relationships, these gradually replace traditional blood relationships and become a new social network in modern society. People place emotions and gain benefits in the new network.
In the new relationship, the word best friend appears very frequently. It originally refers to the relationship between very close women, but the expansion of vocabulary objects is a common phenomenon. The word best friend is the same. Originally, only the closest and most intimate relationship can be called best friend. Now, as long as the relationship between women is closer, they can be called best friend, so there are words like plastic best friend.
Xiaoxiao and Ru Ru were originally close sisters. They often go shopping and eat together, and are intimate. They are typical good friends. Between the two, they usually go shopping and eat, etc., it doesn’t matter who pays for it.
Xiaoxiao's economy is a little more abundant, and she is preparing to rent a new house. It turns out that there are many personal belongings in the house, so she contacted her good friend Ru Ru. It's a pity to throw away personal supplies such as
. Some of them are still very good cosmetics, skin care products, etc., so Ru Ru happily accepted Xiaoxiao's gift. After all, these things are also very expensive and useful to Xiaoxiao.
Friends gifts to each other are common, and it is rare to say who suffers losses or takes advantage of them. This itself is a symbol of friendship. Who has not had many good friends? After all, people cannot live just for money.
But feelings are the most fickle. When they are reliable, the atomic bomb cannot explode. When there are cracks, a gust of wind can blow away. Xiaoxiao feels that it’s nothing to give her things to her best friend. What’s wrong with having a good relationship?
But some people heard other friends say that Ru Ru said that Xiaoxiao is stupid and has a lot of money, and she is just a sucker. She gives such good things to others, which is really a bit stupid.
Xiaoxiao was very angry after hearing this, and even entrusted a lawyer to send a lawyer's letter to Ru Ru. After receiving the lawyer's letter, Ru Ru contacted Xiaoxiao and asked Xiaoxiao to provide the address, but Xiaoxiao said that she would not accept items that Ru Ru had used.
Once the relationship between a best friend breaks up, it will completely ignore the previous relationship and face. Even the lawyer has entrusted it. It seems that this is going to go to court and completely forget how good the relationship was before.
After the trial, the court determined that the gift of Xiaoxiao was completely voluntary. If the gift has been completed, the gift cannot be revoked without a legitimate reason.
In the end, the court rejected Xiaoxiao's lawsuit. These items sent cannot be taken back. If the gift can be removed at any time, it will be very unfavorable to economic stability.
Articles 657 and 658 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China stipulate that a gift contract is a contract in which the donor gives his property to the donor free of charge and the donor expresses his acceptance of the gift. The donor may revoke the gift before the right to the donated property is transferred.
Although this case is small, it can reflect the current living conditions of people. In addition to the relationship between men and women, there are actually many gift relationships between many good friends, and these gifts cannot be revoked at will.
If the relationship was really good at the beginning and the things were sent out, we should never think about coming back. This itself is a kind of affirmation of the relationship at that time. We cannot guarantee that a relationship can end, but at least we can confirm that those feelings that have happened before are good are good, and will not deny the truth of the relationship at that time because of the breakdown in the future.
