Do you often visit relatives’ houses? The editor feels that sometimes I walk less with my relatives and get farther away, and it seems that my relationship is not that deep. Although we are relatives sometimes, our relationship is not as deep as our neighbors. The editor has seen many relatives since he was a child, and to be honest, they are quite annoying.
You think you have a kinship relationship, and what your relatives say must be directed towards you, but that is not necessarily the case. Sometimes relatives also need to beware of it. My mother said that when she was young, she lived very close to her relatives. Because when she lived in the village, everyone looked down and saw each other, but what some relatives did was quite annoying.
Mom said that when she was young, she had many conflicts with relatives. Now she is older, and sometimes when she mentioned the things that happened back then together, they all have their own right or wrong. Even if my mother and relatives have conflicts, I will still take me to visit my relatives during the Chinese New Year and the holidays. You can't go empty-handed when you visit. My mother usually goes to the supermarket with me to buy some gifts and brings them to . This is what normal human relationships are needed.
When you come to your relative's house to talk for a while, the relatives will also say some polite words. Sometimes we have to learn to understand what they say, what is polite words, and what is sincere words. For example, if you hear them say this, they will definitely be polite. must not believe it. Don’t believe it too honestly, otherwise it will make others unhappy.
"Look, you can come here, why do you have to bring something? Don't take it next time! I'm very happy if you guys come!"
Can you hear this when you and your parents go to your relative's house? Anyway, every time I go to a relative's house with my mother, I will hear my relatives say this. After all, you can’t just go to see relatives without leaving your hands! Let’s not talk about the gifts we bought for now, but we only bought them. They are all our wishes. They are just being kind to say this, it is normal for them to act.
Some relatives, although they say that, their ideas are not like this. Don’t believe it! The funny thing is that although some relatives in said this, they unconsciously took your gift with their hands. Isn’t this a clear sign of anxiety?
I remember when I was a child, I went to visit a cousin from afar. That's what he said to me. Later, I remembered this sentence. When I came to see him again the second time, I didn't bring any gifts. can obviously see that he was very unhappy on his face, but after I left, he told others about my bad things. Later it reached my ears and I felt very uncomfortable.
Believe me, If you believe this, you will go there without any gift next time, and then he will not give you a good face when eating.
"Look, I'm very anxious. There's nothing at home. Let's just eat something today. If the hospitality is not good, just wait and feel free to wait!"
When a relative said this, your best answer must be: "Oh, where is it? This is not good? Then what's the good one? Your preparation is already very good. These are all things I like to eat at all. How can I be neglected?"
The reason why they say this is polite. No matter what kind of dishes they prepare, they are carefully prepared. We must not evaluate it. Even if they really don't treat it well, we must answer this way. must not express their opinions according to their words, as they will be unhappy. They will definitely think so at that time: "I just said that, but I didn't expect that people still think I was not doing well. It was so difficult to treat, and there were so many requests."
" Look, it's so late, don't leave, live here, you can live here! "
Sometimes when I come to visit my relatives' houses, I will inevitably chat for a longer time. After talking unconsciously, it may be dark outside. When I heard someone say this, what they meant was: "Look, it's dark outside, shouldn't you leave? We should all go to bed! " But they can't express their ideas. After all, that's not very nice. Generally speaking, they will say this. When you hear this, you must be careful that they want you to leave.
After all, communicating with relatives is also a kind of ability, which is to show our emotional intelligence or the ability to interact with others. You should not be careless in choosing gifts. If you don't choose well in , it's better to choose two bottles of good wine to bring with you. Better wines can often be liked by people.
"" Xiaohutu Xianjiu ": Relatives will be very happy to see such exquisite packaging. After all, you have to choose a gift-giving wine. The appearance must be very beautiful, and the taste needs to be very good. Although some bottle-packed wines taste good, they cannot be given to others due to their appearance.
After all, it is also a famous wine in Guizhou and has a certain reputation. Familiar friends, He also knows it very well. When he drinks it in his stomach, this bottle of wine is also warm and feels very delicious.
"Guokang 1935": This is brewed by Chen Xingxi, the former chief engineer of of Moutai Distillery. The delicious aroma is just poured into the cup and you can obviously smell it. is a pure, dense, pure natural grain flavor. This smell slowly spreads, and relatives will definitely be attracted to it on the dining table.
Because I have selected the best particles, red tassels are full, essence, natural, high-quality high-quality sorghum , you only need to drink it in the first sip of the mouth and you can fill your mouth with the mellow and honey taste. Although the first taste is a little bitter, the bitterness will soon dissipate, and the rest is sweet and sweet.
Everyone will visit you in the future and hear these words, be more careful!
