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When should you fall in love, when should you get married, and when should you have children, there is actually no fixed timeline. Everyone is different and there is no comparison.
Some people meet true love when they are in their teens, while others are still single in their 40s.
It cannot be said that he must be lucky to meet someone who is in his teenage years, because it is very likely that he was too young at that time and did not know what love is, so in the end, he was covered in bruises.
And that person who is almost forty still single may not be unfortunate.
In the time when he was not in love and was not involved in love, he focused more on himself, so his career developed very well, which gave him confidence and could choose any kind of life he wanted to live, as well as the person he wanted to love and the feelings he wanted.
Two types of people, two different life rhythms, there is no difference between right and wrong or good or bad, it is just different.
If a woman is still single at the age of thirty, don’t wear tinted glasses to look at them, it will only make you too narrow-minded.
They are not wrong, they just haven't met their own fate for the time being, and they haven't met the right person.
You may be curious, will they miss the opposite sex if they are single for a long time? Do you feel lonely and lonely? In fact, since a person has chosen a life, he will definitely have her reasons, otherwise how could he enjoy it?
I have a thirty-eight-year-old friend who told the truth about it.
1: I don’t think about it. Since I chose to be single, it means I have adapted to a single life
This friend is my former colleague. The reason why she still has no love and no marriage when she was thirty-eight years old is just because she is too busy with work and has no time at all.
Several times, she went on a blind date under the arrangement of her family or friends, but before she could finish a meal, she was called away by the customer or boss.
As a workaholic and a strong woman, she regards her career as more important than anything else.
She thinks that women can be without men and without marriage, but they must not be without money. Only when you live independently enough can you choose the life you want to live without looking at anyone's expression.
is also because of this. She has not met someone suitable for marriage. Whenever the other party asks her if she can balance her work and family properly after marriage, she always asks back:
"Why don't you balance? I'm not earning less than you."
is like this, and it's gone again.
2: No matter which state of life you choose, you must be self-consistent
Regarding whether you feel lonely for a long time and whether you will occasionally miss the opposite sex, she answered directly:
"Since I chose to be single, it means that I have already adapted to the single life and do not feel lonely or lonely at all. I rarely think of a certain opposite sex because work and life are quite fulfilling."
In her opinion, men and women are actually the same. No matter which kind of life you choose, the most important thing is self-consistent. Only by reconciling with yourself can you live more freely.
Do whatever you want, and maintain the status quo if you don’t want, but you can’t complain. Adults must know how to be responsible for their choices, otherwise they will live too twisted and will not be open-minded.
It is true that this is true. How many of us really live a clear life? We always look at the mountain high, and we don’t know what we want.
When I was single, I envied others for falling in love, so I just found someone to fall in love. But it turned out that two people who were inappropriate would only torture each other, and they were not as good as being single.
so he returned to being single again.
is like this. When we are in love, we envy others for being single. When we are single, we are always dissatisfied with ourselves and always feel that others are living a good life, but we are in a mess.
The result was a long time to go around and lost myself.
In fact, there is no need to do this. A life that suits you is the best life, and we don’t need to compare with anyone. Only when you find your own rhythm and walk on with a clear conscience is the best scenery.
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