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Women will lose their minds when they love someone. They can do anything for the other party, sacrifice anything, and violate any principles and bottom line.
Because at this time she was not thinking about herself, but the other party.
However, once she wakes up and calms down, she will feel stupid and feel that it is not worth doing all of this, so she will take back all her enthusiasm and become more indifferent than ever.
At this time, the man will suddenly feel uncomfortable, and he doesn't understand how women change.
So many men will show kindness to women in turn.
It’s a pity that it’s too late. A woman who has completely awakened will not give him a second chance. She will only become more and more heartless and cruel.
In fact, in love, a woman’s biggest indifference is not to break off all the contact information of a man, but to do these two words: indifference.
1: Indifference is to completely calm and sober after regaining enthusiasm
In the TV series " My First Half of Life ", after divorce, Luo Zijun, , faces ex-husband Chen Junsheng, has unprecedented calm and indifference.
Before divorce, she put down her dignity and cried and begged him not to leave; after the divorce, she completely saw all the selfishness and hypocrisy of this man and finally gave up completely. After giving up, she seemed to have completely changed.
She began to fight for everything she deserved. Since the other party was the party at fault, she wanted all the children, houses, cars and deposits. This is what he owed her, so she was not ruthless when she sued.
Not only that, she, who was considered to be unable to take care of herself, also looked for a job as soon as she divorced, so she looked down on her ex-husband and soon looked at her with admiration.
This is the potential of a woman. She loves you and can be humble to the dust for you. If you don’t love you, you won’t count anything.
Her ruthlessness is not reflected in breaking contact with you, nor is she blocking you, but becoming indifferent in front of you. This is her awakening after being injured, and it is also the growth she is destined to have.
2: Indifference is the most ruthless revenge on men, and it is also the best explanation to yourself.
Many people always feel that the most ruthless revenge on men is to try their best to hurt him, to make him feel in pain and regret it. But if you think about it carefully, isn’t the reason why you spent so much effort to retaliate against him because you still love him and can’t let go?
If you really let go and don’t care, why do you waste time on him? Is he worthy?
What you really should do is to clean up your mood and start the next journey quickly.
There are many things worth doing, the scenery worth seeing is on the road, and the people worth loving are also coming towards you with great enthusiasm and expectations for the future.
Why bother to get entangled with an old man?
becomes indifferent, which is actually to restore rationality and soberness. This is the cruelest revenge on a man and the best explanation to yourself. Such you are the one who regained confidence and understood how to love yourself, and the one who became better after being hurt.
Why are there so many love brain women in life? It's just because they're still naive.
They have never suffered the pain of love and have not been hurt by others, so they don’t understand what love is.
So they thought they were very lucky to meet someone who happened to love them, and thought they could continue to be so happy and be able to work hand in hand with each other to the end.
It was not until one day when she discovered that a man had changed his mind that she suddenly realized: nothing is unchanging. Loving and staying together is just a lucky situation, and getting separated is a normal state.
Since that's the case, why not take it lightly and look down on every encounter and parting?
When a woman finally becomes indifferent, it is not that she becomes cruel, but that she is completely awake and fully understands.
She no longer has so many unrealistic expectations for love, but can start from reality and fall in love rationally. This is precisely an important sign of maturity.
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