Well, this is a man's confession.
A female netizen replied: It was me who would stab your whole family to death.
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Pregnant
Pregnant
A man posted a question: " Will women really hold grudges for many years? They even want to divorce ?"
I guess women who see the post want to say something: That depends on what's going on.
A man blinked his innocent eyes and told what happened to their house.
"I am a man, thirty years old this year, my wife is the same age as me, my marriage is facing collapse recently, I really don't know how to solve it.
My wife and I have been working in other places and renting a house. After giving birth, she lived with my parents in my hometown for almost two years, and it was the two years that she had formed hatred. Now three or five years have passed, and my wife still can't let go. Recently, she even filed for divorce, saying that she was very disappointed with me and her relationship was worn out.
talk about a few incidents that hurt her more.
- 1. Pregnancy is always taken care of by her parents. She was in the city for prenatal examination and wanted to have a child there.
My mother thinks the city is expensive and hopes she will give birth to a health center in the town. Later, she gave birth to a health center in . . She thought that my parents thought money was more important than her health.
- 2. She passed away when she was a child and was adopted by her aunt's house.
My aunt's house is very nice to her. My mother once quarreled with her and scolded her for not having parents.
- 3. She didn't eat vegetables since she was a child.
But during confinement, my mother gave her vegetables every meal and said she was too picky about food. After she got pregnant, my mother didn't go to work. Whenever she had the chance during confinement, she said, "You have to do it now." I know I'm making money." "I don't care anyway. My child's milk powder and diapers are gone, so I'll look for you." She thought my mother told her, and I think my mother was just urging me to make money.
- 4. When my son was one year old, she fought with my second sister.
I was not present at the time, and she said it was because of her second sister. "Let my brother divorce you soon", this sentence made her out of control. That day was a banquet held at my house, and many people were present, which made her very embarrassed, so she started fighting with my second sister. My mother pulled her hands and pinched her hair. My grandfather also pulled her hair. My sister did say that I had divorced me before, and it was the time when we had a quarrel.
In short, these are the things. I think it's over, and life should look forward. Is it? But she always mentions it every once in a while. I coax her every time, but it still doesn't work.
Now we are living outside. I'm a little alienated from my sister and basically don't contact me. I just hope to have a good life. But she doesn't seem to trust me anymore. He said that going home with me every year during the Chinese New Year is a pain, our whole family doesn't respect her, and my sister's children don't say hello when they see her, etc.
Because I was ignorant back then, I didn't speak for her. I've left her alone and said I'm disappointed with me all day long and don't love her. I don't know what to do? Can women really hold grudges for so long?
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stab you to death
Kill you
To be honest, after reading his confession, I looked at the reply below and found that the most satisfying thing was a female netizen saying: "It was me who would stab your whole family to death. ”
Of course, this is an angry word, no one can really do it.
But even after so many years, even through the screen, after he passed by, a man's mouth cut corners and beautified, the past things he said after beating his side was suffocating.
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Pregnant
Pregnant
He said so much, only two things.
- 1, their family unscrupulously bullies a pregnant woman who was once an orphan.
- 2, as the wife of a pregnant woman, he is responsible for whitewashing the unilateral bullying into a "quarrel".
will tell you the details of where to give birth.
His wife didn’t ask to go to the confinement center, right? Didn't you ask to go to private hospital ?
doesn't even require painless delivery , right?
Pregnancy is in My grandfather , My grandfather is in the city, and the prenatal examination is done in the city hospital. hopes to go to the prenatal examination to have a child. This is the most common requirement for young women today, right?
Has a child in a village and town health center?
excuse me?
Health center?
Is there an obstetrician?
Can you understand the prenatal examination report?
This special thing is that women with normal prenatal examinations have a good chance of , and has a 1.5-tenth chance of if they have complete medical conditions and have done perinatal health care .
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Production
Deliver a baby
How far is it to the townships and towns now?
How much is this urban hospital more expensive than a health center?
Doesn’t there any maternity insurance?
Doesn’t there still be medical insurance reimbursement?
In order to encourage women to have children, the country has spread most of the childbirth costs into medical insurance and social welfare!
How stingy is this special? Even this little money needs to be saved?
can save several hundred, or one thousand?
The reason why people go to the hospital now is not to have a child at home or not in the village. To put it bluntly, it is because the hospital has insurance - in case of an accident, the hospital can be rescued and the chance of survival is relatively high.
There was an old saying in the past, "When a woman gives birth, the coffin holder must walk around the door three times!"
means that the risk is too great, which is equivalent to pulling the coffin board and playing a swing, and accidentally passing by.
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Murder
Murder
In the past, the mortality rate of women giving birth was as high as 20%.
It is easy for medical treatment to progress and society has developed. Obstetrics and gynecology departments have been widely implemented in small counties and township health centers. The extremely low-cost medical treatment will be deprived of your wife and you have to give birth to a health center. Is your family still a human being?
You ask your own sisters, did you give birth to a baby in a health clinic?
There is nothing wrong with it. Something happened. Isn’t it just murder ?
still cannot hold the murder accountable.
The woman's in-law's family who killed the woman's body can also point to the woman's body and ask for a large amount of compensation from the health center!
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orphan
Prphan
scum!
This matter alone is unforgivable.
This is not a savings, because it really doesn’t save a lot of money.
has medical insurance and maternity insurance. In ordinary municipal hospitals, the part that can be paid for by themselves is only a few hundred yuan.
This is just tormenting people on purpose!
This is just because she is afraid that she will not feel uncomfortable!
Otherwise, how could you know that your daughter-in-law has never eaten vegetables since she was a child, and when she was in confinement, she would give her vegetables every meal?
Who doesn’t have a few things that don’t like to eat or even absolutely don’t eat?
Subscribe to order in a restaurant, and the waiter also has to ask: "Is anyone who is afraid of food?"
Some people will never eat coriander, some people will never eat mutton, and some people will vomit when they smell the chicken.
Last time, another female star said on the show that she will never eat bananas.
Why? It’s not pretentious. Her mother died suddenly. She went home to attend the funeral. As soon as she entered the door, she saw the portrait,
and the fruit banana in front of the portrait...
Psychologically, at that time, banana was associated with her psychological trauma and .
Therefore, everyone has their own food that they should not eat or eat. They deliberately give you food every meal when the mother is weak, and then accuse you of being picky about food. This is intentional provocation plus torture .
won't eat it, right? Hungry you.
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Branch
Memorial Gateway
At the same time, I have another handle to scold your crime.
is the same as not allowing you to have children in the city. Just like the Rong Mama in the palace,
I just torment you, I just don't want you to have a good life.
Then I can still stand against various archways of righteousness, so you can't speak.
The most hateful thing is not just bullying the mother. When they bully people, they are like Mama Rong.
knows to attack the most painful place.
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Divorce
Are you an orphan?
I will scold you for not having a father or a mother.
Because she has no father or mother, such a girl actually relies heavily on her husband when she gets married.
In terms of relationship, he is her closest person in this world.
So the family used this to stimulate her: "I asked my brother to divorce you!"
also said at the banquet when her son turned one year old.
This is not an immorality, it is a lack of great virtue.
The kind of ill-ethical and smoked on the ancestral grave.
Because according to the folk customs in China to this day, the daughter-in-law has made contributions to giving birth to a son. At the wedding banquet of the child’s one-year-old, the biggest one is the birthday star on that day - the first-year-old child. Secondly, the one who should be blessed is the child’s mother.
As a result, I had to pick on this day, and in front of everyone, I gave this mother shameless, pointed at the face and bullied her, and said: "I asked my brother to divorce you!"
This is the same logic as everything before - deliberately provoking and making trouble, just not letting you feel happy - even if your son lives such a festive day as one year old, I will make you feel uneasy.
Specially wherever we slap in the face, wherever we can stimulate you, we will slap wherever we can.
Moreover, this family has a very tacit understanding of the game, and it is very likely that it was planned.
When the sister took the lead and scolded the woman, the woman got angry. The woman fought with the sister-in-law.
The whole family did not go to persuade her, but beat the isolated woman by tying her.
pinched his hands, tear his hair, and she couldn't move with her, so the aunt just let go of her hand and beat her.
This family is really unethical and extremely evil.
The most vicious thing is that she was stimulating her, helping her to pull the ball, taking advantage of the situation to rob her, and beat her up a foreign wife together. The last appearance of husband is responsible for cleaning the floor.
Her husband said: This is a fight between two people.
A nest of people beat a mother who was still breastfeeding on her head and feet,
and then said it was a fight.
I really don’t know how this man has the face to say this.
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Sisterhtml · Mother · Brother
Sister, Mother, Brother
In fact, when any of the above-mentioned marriages happened, she had died without a place to bury her.
has not divorced and can last for three to five years. It is probably because the woman drags her child and is desperate. Marriages like
basically last until the child is older and can go to kindergarten. If a woman can come out to work, she will definitely be broken.
The past full of humiliation and shamelessness, (there must be many trivial details, but it also hides the logic of vicious bullying) will tear a woman's heart day after day.
Repeat this again. These are not ordinary family conflicts, not misunderstandings, not recklessness.
is the constant bullying people, bullying you, and not letting you have a good life.
Indeed, in almost all marriages that have problems in the end, there is such a bad family member who intervenes in the marriage of the couple.
Most of them happen in the family of mama boys.
Look at this man who talks about it. The second sister is the one who takes the lead in bullying his wife.
He has at least three women who regard him as a baby: His mother, his eldest sister, his second sister, and whether there are any third sisters and fourth sisters, but obviously, this is a family that favors boys over girls.
Sometimes, there is no family conflict. Their viciousness of having to abuse their daughter-in-law is the misogynistic person who is engraved in their genes with no reason.
I will do you.
Alien girl is going to be punished.
All the unhappiness and pain they were born into women in the first half of their lives must be vented on a weaker woman.
practices such an outsider who they think should be at the bottom of the family,
makes them feel psychologically satisfied.
Of course, another reason is that this family itself has a bad family style.
Someone asked, but in the three or five years since I was separated, didn’t this husband try to correct it?
—Not.
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Restore
To save
He just mud and .
The content he posted was not a word. Really empathized with his wife's situation at that time.
There is no word to confess what you and your family have done.
He had to reflect on these things, but because his marriage was already in jeopardy.
If he had not been at the gate of the city, he would have refused to see these things at all - because, from the bottom of his heart, he felt that these things were nothing.
"Shouldn't life look forward?"
He actually just wanted to write it off quickly and pretend nothing happened.
As long as the roles are exchanged, men can also experience this pain: a son-in-law.
In recent years, various family sufferings from men have been featured in online novels and online dramas:
The son-in-law was despised by the daughter's family, the son-in-law was beaten by the daughter's family, and the son-in-law was asked to divorce by the daughter's family,...
Only these two are often the origin of a drama "The Son-in-law" that supports ten years of revenge.
In order to repay such a "blood debt", they are often covered with corpses on the ground!
And these points are really nonsense compared to the real torture that happened to the women in this article, right?
Therefore, this man's marriage is likely to be irreversible. Can
be saved? There is still a line of possibility before
.
For example, at that time, he severely blocked his family and asked his sister to apologize to his wife.
He is the vegetable during the confinement period, and stops his mother and asks her mother not to mess with others.
He decisively took his wife away, and moved away from this whirlpool that made people play tricks and bullies.
If he is not so blind at the beginning, or pretends to be blind.
If he has a normal and upright heart, even ordinary passers-by can't stand it.
Things will not deteriorate to this level.
After all, She is related to these people because of him.
Because of him, these people have the opportunity and power to hurt her.
He is the biggest mastermind behind it.
The girl was young at the time and couldn't figure it out. Or I figured it out, the child is still young.
However, this hatred will indeed be remembered for a lifetime. Those vicious invisible fragments have never been taken out of the wound. Therefore, the wound will not heal, gradually become suppurated, carbuncles, and even maggots, eventually leading to "death".
Those who are in their partners, are clever and vicious ,
is indeed not worthy of getting married and not worthy of offspring.
