People reach middle age, especially after their children get married, single men and women will have the idea of finding a partner again. However, in reality, they often live a bad life, even worse than when they are alone. The 53-year-old Aunt Wang also had this idea, but she found that many men's idea of remarrying was just to find a woman with good conditions and virtuous conditions to go home to serve her and her family...
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Aunt Wang wanted to find a companion, so she started attending a blind date for middle-aged and elderly people, and asked many people to introduce her to her. However, when men heard about her conditions, they would show disdain and even admitted that Aunt Wang should just be alone: "This kind of thing is that. Who can be more favored by the conditions? "Because Aunt Wang described the conditions when she was on a blind date: first, there is no pension, second, there is a son who has not yet been married, and third, there is no beautiful face, but she has her own persistence: "I just want to find someone who is good to me and doesn't care about my conditions as her husband." We all know that remarrying for middle-aged people is very realistic. Men often look at the conditions first. After all, no one wants to find a partner who will drag down their quality of life, and men want to find a woman who knows the cold and the hot, and even can take care of the whole family!
The blind date partners with Aunt Wang are basically dressed decently, neatly decorated, and have a pension that is not low. However, this also leads to higher requirements for their blind date partners: the other party can match them, and even if they don’t match, they must be virtuous and not too bad. However, when these decent men met a blind date like Aunt Wang, they refused to talk to her as soon as they met. There were even straightforward men who said directly: "I would like to advise you that it is impossible for a man to choose you, there is no need to be embarrassed!" So, Aunt Wang was very disappointed with these men who seemed to be educated and lived a decent life, but were based on interests, and even asked more than once: "Is there no true love in the world?" Aunt Wang once lost hope for blind dates and remarriage.
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In fact, Aunt Wang's conditions are not bad. She has a monthly pension of 5,000 yuan and has worked with friends to earn some money. As for her son, it looks like a drag. In fact, Aunt Wang has prepared a house and marriage money for him, so the conditions she said are all fake. The reason why Aunt Wang did not say these as her capital for blind dates was actually because she was worried and afraid that her blind date would be greedy for her money, which led to conflicts. What's more, those were prepared by her for her children and could not be used for other purposes easily. Of course, there are also blind date partners who take the initiative to remarry Aunt Wang. However, the man’s request for remarrying was unacceptable to Aunt Wang. What’s more, the man still has a lofty and charitable attitude, which makes Aunt Wang furious and furious!
"After we remarry, we can't care about your children anymore. We have to move in with me. You will take care of my family affairs in the future. I'm not afraid to be honest. I also said I was with you because you didn't find a partner. So there is another thing, that is, after we remarry, we will raise ourselves, and we will find our own children if we have any problems. If you can agree to these conditions, we can remarry, and I think you are happy. After all, I gave you a home. Correspondingly, it's up to you to serve my family!" Aunt Wang is not a fool. She knows that men just want to take advantage of her and raise herself by belittle her and to find a free nanny to go home. However, from the bottom of her heart, she doesn't want to let herself suffer, so she proposed the AA system, which is really too loud.
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"Who do you think you are, and you still want to find a free nanny in this way, but you don't know how to look in the mirror! Even though I look average, I have enough pension savings and my child's expenses are ready. There is no need for you to make requests like you are throwing a burden, and I'm still very beautiful! Even if I'm old, the worst thing is to live alone, so I won't be stupid enough to be a free nanny to take care of your children for you, and I still dislike me, I have something to do, I don't know anything about myself!" At this point, Aunt Wang was completely disappointed with the blind date market...
