The person who comes alone
First, seeing through the world and seeing the warmth and coldness of the world. In this life, one cannot be persuaded to persuade oneself. Only when he hits the wall can he see through it, and only when he falls a few times can he live a clear life. In the past, I talked to people like flowing water and talking freely, but now when I talk to them, I can keep silent and shut up. Why? Because he had experienced the harm caused by the disaster, he understood the principle of leaving three room for words and doing things. Think twice, silence is gold, so that you won’t cause trouble for yourself.
Learn to shut up
Second, I am open to many things, let go, and let go. When I was misunderstood and slandered at the beginning, I always wanted to make it clear and argue clearly. What about now? He was too lazy to pay attention to the same thing because he had already understood that arguing and explaining with malicious people was simply a waste of words and uselessness. Take rumors lightly, live your life well, and let him go with the rest.
was misunderstood and didn't want to explain
Third, I was so upset, I understood, and I was disappointed. I no longer think that all relatives and friends can be heart-warming and talk about everything. The older you get, the more you understand. Not all relatives and friends are trustworthy. Your sincere treatment may not necessarily bring the sincerity of others. It may also be a deception. If you do your best and do everything to help someone, what you get in the end may be calculations or harm.
was deceived by others and fell into the trap
fourth place. After falling, mature, and becoming stronger. I used to think that there were more friends and the road was easy to walk on, but later I found that there were very few people who could help you at critical moments. Friends at the table were just ordinary friends. So, you bid farewell to those useless social interactions and devote your time and energy to improving your abilities and making yourself better. Only when you are strong can you have more friends.
Friends on the wine table
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