There is a variety show that there was a description of marriage: "A good marriage is that you are prepared in your heart. He has the right to get off at any time, but he has never left." The passage of
tells the relationship between two people in a good marriage.
There is a line in the American movie " Marriage Story ": Criminal lawyers can witness the goodness of bad people, while marriage lawyers often witness the evil of good people.
While providing legal services to clients, the marriage lawyer also witnessed the truth in marriage. If there is a book that analyzes the underlying logic of marriage and love law from a legal perspective, leads all women away from the abyss, and improves their ability to protect marriage safety, then this book is worth reading for women.
The author of the book "Good Marriage Is Never Being Forbearable" is a lawyer named Zhang Jing. Lawyer Zhang has been deeply involved in the field of marriage for 15 years, and has sorted out 50 common problems in marriages, directly hitting the pain points of contemporary women in marriage and relationships. Through these common love and marriage scenarios, we can help married and unmarried women resolve disputes in marriage and love.
The author will share his experience since his practice in the form of a story. Everyone who is about to enter marriage or is in marriage can have the wisdom to deal with marriage disputes and have the power to deal with various problems related to marriage.
In the book, the author tells us in detail how to open up our own pattern and improve our understanding of marriage according to the three states of before, after marriage and breaking up of marriage. He also explains a truth: Good marriage is not something that is endured, but is managed with wisdom.
01How to avoid trampling on tricks in marriage before marriage
Do you need to check the other party’s credit report before marriage, how to investigate the other party’s marriage history, is it necessary to read the other party’s physical examination report?
How to avoid being PUA from lovers? How to see through marriage scams? How to avoid the "pig killing" trap?
Is it necessary to sign a pre-marriage property agreement? How to define personal property and debt?
These questions are all highlighted in Chapter 1.
Some people say that true love is not a brain-walking. Only breaking up is a technical job that requires starting IQ. However, this book reminds you: You should think more before marriage, so that you can less trap in your marriage life.
Especially in the Internet era, the way of social interaction has changed, so the way of marriage and love will also be affected. Men and women across thousands of kilometers may become destined people through the Internet and hold hands with each other.
In order to reduce the risks in future marriage, it is necessary to carefully consider some important issues before marriage and conduct detailed investigations.
For example, individual credit status and debt status must be investigated and understood, because marriage relationship is a community, and the economy of both parties will affect each other after marriage.
If the other party is involved in a lawsuit or has bad credit and starts a family with such a person, you may face many risks.
Therefore, before marriage, we must investigate as much as possible, do a good job in psychological construction, and clarify issues such as personal property and debt.
02How to make intimate relationships more balanced after marriage
Is everything going well after marriage? What you don't know is that there are three types of invalid marriages.
What are the personal rights of after marriage, and how should it be protected? How did the couple agree on the common property? What are the issues that need to be paid attention to when buying a house after marriage?
Only by knowing how to properly handle these games about marriage can we make the intimate relationship more balanced.
There are three invalid marriages, the first is bigamy, the second is kinship relationships that are prohibited from getting married, and the third is that they have not reached the legal age for marriage. If your marriage belongs to any of these three, then it will not be protected by law.
As people's legal awareness improves, more people have begun to pay attention to their personal rights in marriage. Women who have experienced domestic violence against are becoming more and more brave to stand up and defend their rights.
Perhaps happy marriages are all similar, but unfortunate marriages have their own misfortunes. If your personal rights are infringed in marriage, you must bravely defend yourself.
In this book, we will introduce in detail how women who are violated in marriage should effectively protect their personal rights. This also has certain value and significance for women in happy marriages.
03How to protect yourself when your marriage breaks up
How to deliver clearly when your marriage breaks up and cannot be recovered? What are the principles of property division and the recognition of debts? How can we protect our own interests to the greatest extent?
How is the legal provision for the raising of children?
In this last part, it clearly explains the conditions for divorce, as well as several forms of divorce and a series of subsequent issues.
If the marriage is in the last step, it is impossible to keep it, and the two of them are just suffering and pain in the marriage, and they are destined to be passers-by. It is better to get together and part. If you cannot even keep some warmth, remember to protect yourself at the last moment.
Everyone wants to have a perfect marriage, but there will always be unsatisfactory times. Whether before or during marriage, or even after the marriage breaks down, how to avoid traps and abyss, and protect yourself to the greatest extent, it is enough to read this book.
Only by using legal thinking can we reduce noise for marriage, build a line of defense for marriage, and enhance our control over marriage. Only by managing with your heart, optimizing each other's lives with love, and blessing your marriage with wisdom can you continuously improve the happiness index of your marriage.
