Maybe he is really busy.
A reader, because she likes a man, even though she is not very proactive in character, she is still very proactive in that man.
Because she believes that love cannot just rely on waiting, but more, it also needs to be fought for by herself.
In order to have the desired relationship, after being moved, she did not hesitate at all, and directly began to pay attention to the other party, inquire about the other party's news, and took the initiative to say hello to the other party.
She is really proactive and often deliberately finds topics that the other party is interested in. However, no matter how hard she tries, what she says to the other party, the other party's attitude is always cold.
always seems perfunctory when she takes care of her, she says very little, and always responds very slowly. More moments, I just told her that I was very busy, interrupted the chat quickly, or simply refused to reply.
In response to this, she said that she was confused whether the other party was really busy, so she didn’t have time to reply to her and chat with her. However, no one was so busy that she didn’t even have time to reply to messages. It is normal that
cannot be replied in time occasionally.
In this era, everyone often uses their mobile phones very frequently.
from time to time, I will browse my Moments, read the news, browse the videos, and even work is completely inseparable from my mobile phone.
It’s just that sometimes, when I’m having a meeting, sleeping, busy with housework, flying, or exercising, there will be a period of time when I won’t keep staring at my phone or keep paying attention to the news.
So, if you send a message to a person, occasionally he doesn't reply in seconds, and does not reply within a few minutes, even if dozens of minutes have passed, one or two hours have passed, you still haven't received his reply, and you don't have to think too much.
He may be really busy with his own affairs and has no time to take care of your news for the time being, nor has he heard the prompt.
When encountering this situation, you don’t have to be fond of it, you will be angry directly, thinking that the other party doesn’t want to pay attention to you and deliberately treat you like this.
Just don’t think about this matter first, do whatever you should do, give the other party some time to see what will happen after a while, or a few hours.
Generally speaking, everyone will have such times and cannot reply very quickly. It is just that depending on the individual's situation, some people will have more situations, while others will have relatively fewer situations.
has never been back, but in fact I don’t want to go back.
As for, if you often find someone but he never responds to you, it is not that you did not reply in time, but that no matter how long you waited, when you went to bed, when you got up the next day, and when you waited on the third day, you still didn’t reply.
No one will be busy for twenty-four hours or forty-eight hours, and they will not have their own time at all and will not read the news.
never reply to you. It’s not that he is very busy, busy talking about particularly big business, busy doing very important things, but it is just that he is not willing to chat with you and spend his time on you.
The message you sent him, he saw it, maybe he saw it at that time, or maybe he saw it a little later, but after seeing it, he glanced it a little bit and found that it was you who sent it, and then he felt bored.
is not that you are not interested in the content you posted, but that you have no meaning to you.
Because he doesn't want to have anything to do with you and doesn't have any good feelings for you, he chose to automatically ignore your news and was unwilling to give you any reply at all. He just pretended that he didn't see it.
People who don’t have you in their eyes are like this. I would rather sit there alone in a daze than reply to you.
In his heart, he really doesn’t have the desire to know you, and he doesn’t want his reply to make you misunderstand something and make things troublesome. People who don’t reply to
don’t keep disturbing.
As a person always ignores you and does not take your news seriously, then you'd better not send it to him again.
will reply to your person. If you send it once, he will reply when he sees it. If someone who is unwilling to reply to you, no matter how many times you continue to send it, he may not pay attention to you. He keeps leaning in front of him, and he will only be himself who is injured.
It will indeed seem very impolite if the other party does not reply to your message, but if the other party does not reply to you, you will still send it without any worries at all, causing trouble to the other party. Your behavior is actually also very impolite, and even more impolite.
Since the other party is too lazy to give you a low eyebrows and is unwilling to accept you into his life, don’t be so self-indulgent, insist on winning his likes and squeeze into his world.
Just be a little tacit understanding. If he doesn’t reply, stop taking the initiative, stop sending it to him, and ask why the other party treats you like this and does not reply to your message. What does it mean.
From now on, take back your likes, take back your mood of always looking for him, forget about this thought, just live your life well, and be with those who value you very much, and always reply to you.
doesn't matter. Some people don't care about you at all, but there are always people who are never willing to ignore you and will treat you well.
Life is actually a process of continuous screening, whether it is screening some things or the people around you.
Don’t wait stupidly anymore, stop making excuses for the other party, and keep lying to yourself.
No one will be busy until you can't reply to your message.
He just thinks your news is irrelevant, and is doing more important things and accompanying people who are more important to him.
The truth may not be that good, nor is it what you want, but you should learn to accept the facts.
Recognize the other person's attitude towards you, see your initiative clearly, and not be welcomed by the other person, and then silently withdraw from the other person's world, so that the other person will no longer have the opportunity to leave you alone and embarrass you.
gave him the life he wanted. He wanted to treat the person he wanted, and gradually bid farewell to him deep in his heart.
Then, return yourself to yourself and redefine your future.
text/Tan Meng
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