Zhuang Die Xiaomeng/See the essence through the story
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For a woman, the most dangerous thing is not weak, but she is obviously weak, but she thinks she will meet a prince charming who changes her destiny.
Weakness can be changed through one's own efforts, but if you are weak and cannot recognize the reality, it is really helpless.
Contemporary society is an online society and a society where toxic chicken soup is flying all over the sky. There are always some unspoken women who are distorted by some unreal toxic chicken soup and romance novel .
They insist that only the lower-level men value the conditions of their partner, and particularly rich men never care whether their partner has money or not.
In fact, this is simply a big joke.
The false fairy tale world: the better the man, the more he likes "poverty alleviation"
From childhood to adulthood, we are all wrapped in a mysterious fairy tale color. It mainly comes from two aspects, one is film and television, and the other is novel.
The biggest feature of romance novels is that they give people fantasy and write into things that cannot happen in real life, so as to satisfy everyone's desires.
Film and TV dramas are usually adapted from romance novels, while idol dramas happen to be fairy tales that deviate from reality.
Whether it is a romance novel or an idol drama, they like to create stories about Cinderella and the prince, and they are also particularly perfect.
The Cinderella in the story is mediocre, not high or beautiful, and the conditions in all aspects are even more ordinary. This is simply a true portrayal of all ordinary girls.
And the prince charming in the story is a perfect man who combines various advantages. He is tall, handsome and rich, has a successful family, and has a talent.
The most important thing is that he is a very dedicated man. He doesn’t love anyone, he just loves the Cinderella in the story.
Even if the white and rich beauty is around him, he is indifferent.
As people get older, they will gradually recognize reality and regard the idol dramas they were once passionate about as their happiness, while some people are deeply trapped in it and cannot extricate themselves.
plus the wanton spread of Internet poisonous chicken soup, they became more and more persistent in their ideas, always thinking that they could wait until they could save themselves from the prince charming in the fire and water.
The cruel real world: the higher the level, the more you pay attention to the right match
Reality and idol dramas are completely opposite after all. There are no men who like poverty alleviation in life. A truly excellent man only likes excellent women.
Looking at the real society, you will find that the higher the level of men, the more they care about being a good match. Whether in the business circle or the film and television circle, men with capital look for women with capital, and they are the ones who are all the way.
From a marriage perspective, the level of the partner will determine the level of the family.
To a certain extent, marriage is also a cooperation, and both husband and wife are the best partners.
Once married, the two people are a community of interests, one prospers and one loses.
Under such circumstances, men naturally want to find a good partner so that they will not drag down their family level. On the contrary, they can go to a higher level.
This will be of great benefit to their family and the next generation.
From the perspective of love, the better the opposite sex, the easier it is to arouse love in a man's heart.
There are always women at the bottom who think that a man with good conditions and finds a woman with good conditions, it must not be because of love, but because of the strength of the woman. To put it bluntly, it is to use it.
To be honest, these unpleasant words and slander are just ways for women to vent their jealousy. They are neither facts nor can they play any role.
Why does an excellent man marry an excellent woman not because of love? You, a woman with ordinary conditions, likes excellent men. Does a man with excellent conditions still know how to like excellent women?
Just think about it carefully and you will know that this is irrelevant at all.
From the perspective of love, princes can only love princesses because they are a perfect couple.
Advice women: In the nature of survival of the fittest, no one will like the weak
often see men and women at the bottom of the Internet slander excellent women. Some people say they are too strong and difficult to get along with, and some people say they are too powerful and not like them, but the reality is exactly the opposite.
The truly excellent women in real life usually have families, and most of the remaining ones are ordinary women.
Everyone must be clear about one thing: survival of the fittest is the law of nature, and the weak will eventually be eliminated.
. Eliminated by life
. Life is not easy for young people in contemporary society because everyone faces huge challenges.
High-education and high-income people can live the life they dream of according to their own wishes. Although they have troubles, they won’t have too many, because they are capable and rich.
. Women with low education are easily eliminated by the workplace, especially when they reach a certain age, it is difficult for them to find a suitable job.
Some young people used to work hard in big cities, but later they had to go back to their hometowns. This is also a disguised elimination.
2. Eliminated by marriage
Marriage also has survival of the fittest, and everyone must understand this.
Women with superior blind date market conditions will always be more popular, while women without three can easily be eliminated.
From ancient times to the present, men have not had the habit of poverty alleviation. The better men are, the more they like excellent women, because only excellent women are worthy of them.
What's more, they have the capital to choose. How could I fall in love with an ordinary woman who can't be more ordinary?
You will understand the truth after thinking about it carefully.
Therefore, women should not continue dreaming. There is indeed a prince charming in the world, but the prince charming doesn’t like you. If you want to change your destiny, you can only rely on yourself.
Zhuang Die Xiaomeng/Emotional Column Original creator
May your life be full of surprises and may your happiness come as scheduled.
