Some people say that poverty and perfunctory are different things. Some people also believe that if the material conditions are not good, no matter how you do it, it will make people think you are perfunctory.
But if the girl has chosen you, she has accepted your financial conditions and is willing to work with you, what she needs is just an attitude.
For families in remote mountainous areas, marrying a wife is indeed not an easy task. The financial conditions were not good at the beginning, and if the girl didn't pay attention to it, the girl would be even more reluctant to marry her.
A small village in Guangxi, the young man told his mother that he would take his girlfriend home. My mother immediately became busy and mobilized more than a dozen people from all over the family to help.
The village is relatively remote. It is deep in the mountains. Usually, everyone has to walk half an hour of mountain road before they can get on the bus and lead to the outside world. Not only is it inconvenient to travel, but it is not convenient to buy things.
The older generation has long been used to this kind of life, and life in the mountains is also very good. But when young people see the outside world, they are reluctant to come back. The same is true for the young man. After he no longer goes to school, he goes to work in the city and can earn more money and send it to his home to improve the conditions at home.
On that day, the young man called his mother and told her that he had made a girlfriend and was going to take her home to meet them, so that his mother would prepare for it.
The mother was overjoyed. What she cared about the most was her son's marriage, and she was urging her son to get married and have children as soon as possible. Now that her son is going to take his girlfriend home, she is naturally happy.
But she was happy and worried again. She was so arrogant that her family was barely in the condition. Will the girl dislike her after she came? If you scare your future daughter-in-law away because of this, it is your responsibility as a mother.
The money my son sent back from work before was left after they built the house. They wanted to buy furniture slowly, but it seemed that they couldn't wait. So he quickly mobilized the whole family and started to organize furniture.
Relatives heard that the young man was going to take his girlfriend home and helped. More than a dozen people went to the town to start purchasing furniture. It was not until everyone had their hands full, and they started returning home.
It is very easy to go, but it is much more difficult to go back, especially on the rugged mountain roads, where everyone carries furniture and walks for an hour before getting home.
After arriving at home, I cleaned up and arranged it again, and several more hours passed. Looking at the family's appearance, my mother was very satisfied and was waiting to receive her future daughter-in-law.
comments
Some netizens commented that as a mother-in-law, she is just afraid of the dislike of her daughter, and not being able to marry a daughter-in-law may not be taken seriously.
Some netizens also commented that this is just a value for her future daughter-in-law. No matter who this person is, she has to buy it, so don’t be moved by herself.
There are also netizens who commented that although they are very touched, the conditions are really too bad. You have to buy a house in the county town to get married. This is the reality, otherwise it will be a problem for children to go to school or go to the hospital when they are sick.
Editor's opinion
The young man works in the city, dates his girlfriend, and takes her back to his hometown. The family must be happy. The ability to carry furniture for an hour across mountains and rivers is also a great deal of attention.
Put it aside if you are moved or not. People’s attitude has already shown that everything you can do has been done. If the woman is not satisfied, it is not because of their attitude, but because she really looks down on the family’s conditions.
If a girl sees such family conditions and is willing to marry and work together, then the in-laws must always be kind to the girl.
