The person who truly loves you never needs you to ask for it, he is just afraid that he will not give enough of it!
In love, women always force themselves too much and always think that a man has never given her what she wants, so how can she be considered love? But she is reluctant to give up and can only go to court in a humble manner. The humble result of
is often to make the other party think you are cheap. The more this happens, the less he will be, and he will not even care about your feelings.
Even if two people have a good relationship, they cannot be self-righteous. They should listen to you in everything. People should always have a sense of space. Even husbands and wifes cannot have no distance at all, which will only make this relationship disappear.
What you need to remember is that no matter whether you are a lover or a husband and wife, no matter how good the relationship is, you cannot "take the initiative" to ask for these three things. What you want is still different from what others give you!
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3 Can't take the initiative to ask for "money"
Regarding money, everyone has their own opinions. Some people think that they make money and spend it themselves. There is no need to ask for money from the other party, but some people think that this is a manifestation of love.
Perhaps, from the perspective of money, you can also see a person's attitude towards you, but if he never thought of giving it to you on his own initiative, everything was asked by you, then it would be meaningless.
After all, what you want is his sincerity and his care, not that you keep reaching out to him, which will make him feel that you are just greedy for his money.
If a person doesn’t even want to spend a penny for you, then there is no need for this relationship to exist. Don’t compromise for him, and don’t be reluctant to give up the so-called relationship. Leaving as soon as possible is a better choice.
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33 cannot take the initiative to ask for a "mobile phone password"
Modern society, there are many secrets hidden in your mobile phone, and you will also set passwords because of this, and you don't want others to easily see the secrets in your mobile phone.
And for couples, the knowledge on mobile phones is great. Some people's psychology is that if you don't show me your phone, there must be secrets that I can't know, so I must read them.
But in fact, he just doesn't like your behavior that goes too far, and there is nothing to be told on his phone. What he doesn't like is your distrust, not the matter that you have to look at his phone.
Therefore, the specific situation needs to be analyzed in detail. At any time, don’t take the initiative to ask for his mobile phone password, but wait for him to show it to you. This relationship is equal and normal.
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33 Can't take the initiative to "love company"
Can love come on the initiative? I don’t think it can be. All I have to do is to be moved or play. There are very few elements of true love.
Some women always pray for the other party’s love to accompany each other when they cannot get love. They always think that getting along with each other more often will always have feelings. After all, this is how they came from before, and it is impossible to disappear in an instant.
But if he never thought of taking the initiative to accompany you or giving you love you, then you wouldn't be able to get it. Your initiative will only make him feel annoyed, and he may ignore you because of this.
No matter how good your relationship was before, you should still maintain a certain boundary. Don’t keep pestering him and ask him to accompany you. Over time, he will become impatient.
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Conclusion
Whether it is a lover or a couple, no matter how much they love each other, they must know how to keep a distance, instead of always asking each other for what you want, that will most likely be disappointed.
What you need to understand is that everyone is an independent individual. Even if your relationship is very close, you must give each other a certain sense of space. This is the secret to a long-term relationship.
If so, you repeatedly ask the other party to give you, and over time, he will not be happy. Moreover, it is better to give it to you if you deliberately ask for it. These two feelings are different.
So, learn to love yourself first, and then give each other space. Such love will be more comfortable and will make each other love each other more!
