Everyone loves beauty. When we pursue a partner, we always try to choose a partner with excellent appearance and slim figure.
Men tend to choose young and beautiful women, while women prefer elegant and mature men. To meet the standards of women choosing a spouse, you only need to do one or most of them.
Men have higher requirements, and only women who meet the two options of youth and beauty can become their goals. Older women are often at a disadvantage when dating and it is difficult to find a suitable partner. Why do most men not pursue 40-year-old women with outstanding appearance?
Psychologist Heidi said that women have the right to decide when choosing a mate, and women's preferences will also affect the development direction of a species to a certain extent. This is true in many animals in nature.
Male often needs to put in a lot of effort to obtain mating rights, such as beating other competitors in the same field. Only when they are recognized by the females can they successfully mate.
Female will be more relaxed in this process. They have absolute dominance and can even determine the time, frequency and duration of mating.
This privilege gives women more capital to choose. When choosing a partner, they will list many conditions that ensure the growth of the next generation. Everyone can hope to meet a better partner so that their descendants are the best among people. When Chinese people get married, they pay attention to being a good match. If they want to attract excellent partners, they must first improve themselves.
A woman who is still single in her forties, unmarried and has no fixed partner, mostly focuses on her career development. At this time, they have entered a stable period of career development, and their economic conditions and social status are more stable than some men.
Excellent self-conditions will also increase your vision of choosing a partner. These women are more picky in choosing a spouse, and most men cannot get in touch with them. These men know that their conditions are less than the expectations of a 40-year-old woman, so they will naturally not cut off their own financial resources and pursue them rashly.
And those men who have excellent personal conditions and can be recognized by 40-year-old women also have certain choices when choosing a spouse. They prefer to look for young and beautiful girls rather than women over 40 years old. At the same time, women's concept of choosing a mate will change with age.
Young girls are full of vitality, they will like older boys who are as young and lively as themselves. Women who grow up have certain experiences. They yearn for a sense of security from their partners, so they like those more mature and stable career-oriented men.
Men’s concept is relatively simple. No matter what era they are in, they always like young and beautiful opposite sex. Existing medical experiments also show that women's fertility will decline with age.
Young not only means that they have better appearance, but also means that they have stronger fertility.
The best childbearing age for women is 20 years old, and women after 35 years old will be called elderly mothers. Even if women in their 40s are highly productive, they will encounter many risks in a production environment.
Considering whether the offspring is healthy, men will be more inclined to choose the former.
People often say that the years with a meat cutter will leave many traces on us. Age will cause a person to change a lot, and these changes will be reflected in many aspects such as eyes, mindset, and skin. The 20-year-old girl is optimistic and full of expectations for life and future.
Their delicate and firm skin will remind men of their beautiful youth. The 40-year-old women have a more outstanding temperament. They often have a strong aura when they are calm and sophisticated. This will also discourage some men, who prefer to pursue women who can control themselves.
20-year-old young girl first entered society and has poor economic strength and is easily deceived by sweet words. Once you meet the opposite sex with a higher social status than you, you will involuntarily feel in love. Many men have serious machismos.
When choosing a partner, they prefer to find an obedient housewife rather than a 40-year-old woman with certain workplace experience and life experience. The current situation of strong women and weak men will also hurt their self-esteem.Modern society is not friendly to single women, and women of this age will always accept various doubts from the outside world.
In fact, marriage is not the only way in life, and not everyone yearns for marriage. It is worth it for these girls to explore their own world in the workplace and find the value and meaning of their existence. Not getting married at the age of 40 does not mean that women are losers.
Instead of being a good woman in the eyes of others, it is better to follow your inner arrangements and live the life you want. Dreams need to be pursued, and we should find something more meaningful in life. What's more, an excellent partner is not assigned to the public, and feelings need certain opportunities to cultivate them, so there is no need to fight for it.
