When I was young, my thoughts on love and women were always dreamy.
thinks love is an extremely romantic and beautiful thing.
When looking for a partner, you won’t think so much. As long as you like, the other party is good to you, you will ignore it and run directly to the other party and be with the other party.
even looks very devoted, must-have the other party and can never see others again.
Most women will have such a period, but after that stage, as they get older and mature, they will not be like this all the time.
Mature women will still be willing to love and desire love, but their ideas will begin to become different when it comes to finding a partner.
Her view on choosing a partner will become more mature and more realistic.
will pay special attention to the other party's character.
If women care about feelings when they are not so mature, they only want to feel good, then for mature women, they will care about feelings, whether they like them, and more, but they will look at people.
will care more than before about the other person’s personality, values, and how they treat the people around them in life.
Because she began to understand more and more, it would not be possible for a person to be nice to him at the beginning, that would not mean that this will always be the case in the years that followed.
likes will fade and become nothing, just to make the good of your consent also disappear and become nothing.
At this time, it is not other than that to truly support each other's lives and let the other party treat themselves well, but that is that the other party just happens to be a person with good character and he has a very responsible sense of himself.
When a man is like this, even if his feelings fade and the freshness fades, his attitude will not change much. Once he makes a choice, he will be responsible for his choice and will always treat women kindly.
Only by choosing such a man will you be more secure in the future. You will not be disappointed again and again after getting married, from disappointment to despair, feeling that you have seen the wrong man and feel that your marriage is so bad.
cares about family situation and considers material conditions.
Young girls don’t dare to talk about money when they talk about their relationship, or they are unwilling to talk about money.
I feel that once a relationship is infected with money, everything will become vulgar, and this relationship will begin to become no longer pure. This is not a good thing for each other, and it is easy for the other party to feel that they are materialistic.
At that time, women were completely unwilling to let their relationship be related to money, and just hoped that everything could be very simple.
In her heart, she felt that as long as they like each other and were sincere, then the days in the future will definitely not be bad. Even if they are just very tight and embarrassed, they can be very happy.
A mature woman is never so naive. When she has seen too many people and things, suffered from the hardships of life, she understands how important the economy is, when looking for a partner, she often considers material aspects.
will see what kind of family the other party was born in, what job he was doing, what income he earned every month, how many assets he had, whether he would drag him down, whether he had the ability to support a family, and be responsible for each other's future.
She no longer believes in love and drinks full water. She only knows that life will be particularly difficult for a modest couple.
does not need to find a man with superior conditions, but he will definitely not choose a man who has a bad family background and has to live a life of muddle-by-witness. He is also very idle, but he just says it well.
does not ask for the quantity, only one suitable one.
The more mature the mind is, the less women are willing to waste their time around people who are not worth it.
Faced with some inappropriate people and people she doesn't like, she is too lazy to deal with, and will only refuse directly.
may speak softly, taking into account the other person's face, but his attitude will be very firm and will not leave any room for anything.
In her eyes, she no longer feels that many people like her. It is a great thing and worth showing off. Instead of dealing with some people who are impossible, she would rather do something alone.
to enjoy your life, improve yourself well, and make yourself better and better.
When it comes to feelings, she has long become pragmatic from vanity, and she only wants to find someone who really fits her, is suitable for living together, work together to create the future together.
She will wait and make herself a good enough lover first. When she meets her one day, she will not be so reserved. She will take the initiative to grasp the other person so that each other can be really together.
In the years after days, she has long understood the value of life, the lack of time waiting for people, and the difficulty of meeting a suitable person, so once she meets her, she will not want to miss it.
The view of love that mature women should have, be emotional, and at the same time, be more rational and sober.
Don’t be obsessed with the feeling for a moment, don’t ignore it just because a man is good to you.
It must look at the other person’s character and whether the other person is down-to-earth and motivated.
There is no need to consider all kinds of considerations for people you don’t like. You must not let yourself lose it easily if you are suitable.
Just love yourself first, and then treat the other person well when you meet someone.
When each other gets married, don’t think about other possibilities. Just live a good life with each other so that your life can be prosperous and your future will be better and better.
is loyal to the present, cherish the people in front of you, and make your second half of your life be fine.
text/Tan Meng
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