The period of love is the happiest and sweetest time for every woman. So when they get to the point of getting married, they think in their hearts that they will definitely live happily after marriage. It is precisely because of their beautiful longing for marriage that they enter into marriage without hesitation. But after getting married, I found that marriage is not just a matter between the couple. There are too many people and things involved in marriage, and it is not realistic to keep the relationship between husband and wife in love forever.
Many newlywed couples really lived a happy world at the beginning. As time goes by and the freshness passes, the feelings gradually fade. Especially after the baby arrives, women have to take care of the baby and have to rest well at night and have to be busy with housework during the day. They are really tired. At this time, you will want your husband to help and share the burden. After get off work, your husband only cares about playing games and looking at your phone. Women will inevitably feel negative emotions. This negative emotion makes women become irritable and no longer as gentle and virtuous as before. If the in-laws and relatives are blowing in the man's ears, the man will think that women are unreasonable and make them feel embarrassed. At the very least, you have a big fight with the woman, and at the worst, you will be beaten by the woman, or even divorce.
In real life, most of the children were awarded to men when the two parties divorced. Some female friends can't bear to give up their children who were pregnant for ten months, so they can only choose to endure such an unhappy marriage. Because I am afraid that stepmothers will abuse their children, fear that no one will discipline them and learn bad things, and fear that their children will starve and get cold... In short, I am worried about their children.
For women, children are weak points. In this world, children are the only ones that can bind women. Especially those mothers with strong sense of responsibility, who know that this kind of marriage is not happy, but they choose to endure for the sake of their children and do not divorce. In fact, in the end, women get nothing, but instead make themselves scarred.
Friends, do you think women should choose to endure for their children?