In the past, we spent many years learning knowledge in various subjects and getting good scores. Now we need to spend more time learning to love ourselves, others, and the world.
"Live down on love and live a shining self"
Huang Lan
I know that Teacher Huang Lan was on a blind date variety show many years ago. At that time, I liked Teacher Huang Lan's comments as a mentor. The first thing that attracted me in this book was the title of the book. As a woman, I saw a senior telling myself on the road to finding love and self, wanting to find some resonance, goals and methods.
After reading it, I found that Teacher Huang Lan did not teach everyone how to walk, but was still walking on the road, and was discussing with everyone how to walk "if we want to be ourselves". I really like such warm text and prose-like stories. I am very patient like a sister next door, without a lot of preaching. All I leave is the inner monologue of an ordinary woman after leaving the screen aura. There are fragments in life, and there are moments of marriage failure and unsatisfactory. It is a sharing of the heart that I have completed more than a dozen TV series that depict human nature and worldly feelings, seeing various rich interpersonal relationships in front and behind the scenes, and constantly summarizing after experiencing thousands of sails.
After putting down this book, I only have two words "real" in my mind. I felt the changes in her mentality from the lines between Teacher Huang Lan's words about her workplace, intimate relationships, original family, and educating children. Now she has really achieved "reality". Too many girls, including Teacher Huang Lan, who have given themselves to all kinds of busyness, busy going to school to take the certificate, busy marrying themselves out, busy giving birth to children, busy giving explanations to their elders. Indeed, such busyness can give them a sense of peace and joy that has not wasted in vain, but this is indeed not true. We should not put ourselves in a numb and down-to-earth manner, as mentioned in the movie "No Questions" "What is the real truth? What is what you see, hear, do, and be with whom you are, and there is a kind of peace and joy that is not regretful or ashamed that is filled with the depths of your heart."
is to remember our preciousness when you are hit and resist malice. When you are confused, you firmly believe in your preciousness, love what you love, do what you do, obey my heart, where your heart reaches, and what you do.
What makes us happy is first of all, and it is our own lifelong lesson to continuously find our own talents and hobbies. Being ourselves is a long road. It turns out that this is yourself, it turns out that you are life.
Finally share a poem by Rumi:
That day will come
With joy, you greet yourself
reaches your own door, look at your own mirror
You smile at each other and say "Please sit, please eat"
You will fall in love with this stranger again
He is yourself
Give him good wine and food
Return your heart to him again
Give this stranger who has loved you all your life
Before, you ignored this stranger for others.
