Marriage and having children are a major event in life. Young couples have no life experience and need to work together after getting married.
It has just entered marriage and has many conflicts. With the arrival of the child, women still need to quit their jobs at home and have children to take care of them.
A responsible boy will also understand the difficulty of his wife and know how to take the initiative to hand over his salary, giving his wife a sense of security.
spent the most difficult time in life with his wife, and some men got married.
still lives like a bachelor, without any impact or change in his original life.
What should I do? Not only will I not pay my salary, but I will pay my wife's efforts at home.
also felt it was taken for granted. Not only did he not reach out to help after returning home, he also felt that his wife did nothing at home.
ignores the wife’s efforts to the family, such a marriage is prone to problems.
The mother-in-law of the psychologist pointed out that during the period when her daughter-in-law was raising her children.
She accidentally learned that her son only gave his daughter-in-law a month, living expenses of 2 to 3,000 yuan.
At this time, as a mother-in-law who has experienced it, she realized the problems of her son's future family.
Sooner or later, their marriage will have problems, so she told her daughter-in-law.
must be paid in the future, and you can only give him a portion of his pocket money in the future.
This mother-in-law who studies psychology believes that women lose the ability to make money by taking care of their children at home.
All the men’s salary is paid, which is a kind of compensation for the family during the time when his wife takes care of the children at home.
also gave her the greatest sense of security. If a man only gave a little money, women would not spend enough on living expenses.
Without money or income, women will feel very anxious inside, and turning around will transfer this anxiety and bad temper to their children.
When raising children, the mother usually spends the most time with her. If the mother is insecure, the child will not be happy.
will be infected by the mother's emotions, so the mother-in-law waited for her son to come back and asked for his salary card for her daughter-in-law.
Later, the daughter-in-law smiled and said to the mother-in-law, "The mothers in other families are all looking for their sons, afraid that their son will be wronged, but why are you looking for your daughter-in-law?"
This mother-in-law said that women who take care of their children at home are not that they cannot make money, but that they have sacrificed so much for their family.
Of course, you should be a husband. Give your wife enough sense of security. Only when the wife at home feels happy can the family of this small family be happy.
As the saying goes, men are rakes that hold money, women are rakes that keep money in charge. After getting married, women are polite money (except for women who make money out of money, of course). This family can be happier and warmer.
People’s lives require money everywhere, and no one can live without money.
Women are not unable to make money, but women pay more when it comes to giving birth and raising children.
So at this time, it is very important for men to give women enough sense of security.
On the other hand, those who gritted their teeth and divorced after giving birth must be in this marriage that the man came from his family and hurt her deeply.
A normal woman can live a life after getting married and has a family and children.
No woman is willing to leave her husband and son and choose to divorce, it must be the man in the marriage who did not do it properly.
The woman thought that after marriage, she would be her safe haven, but later she discovered that all the wind and rain were brought by him.
broke her heart. If most mother-in-law could recognize this.
, together with your son, treat your daughter-in-law well, and believe that every family can live a happy life!
Will you agree with this psychology mother-in-law’s approach?
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