No matter how loving and romantic the love is during the relationship, the days after the marriage will always be dull. The daily life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea has greatly disparaged many women's psychological gap, so that the marriage and love that should have been loyal and sacred was shattered by the so-called stimulation.
In the marriage of the older generation, it is difficult to see divorce and breakup. Even if the three views between the two parties are not in line, what they think is to accommodate each other and live together for the rest of their lives.
But nowadays, break up whenever there is a disagreement, and divorce occurs frequently when there is a little dissatisfaction. Some women even regard marriage as their own springboard and do not regard the solemnity of marriage at all. Coupled with impetuous people's hearts and extravagant society, loyal husband and wife relationships are becoming increasingly rare.
Recently, a netizen in Henan forwarded a video on his social platform. A man and a woman secretly dated without telling their family in broad daylight. She was so brave that she "communicated with each other" by the village. Such behavior is really shameful and infuriating.
It is not difficult to see from the video that this place is like a rural area in some remote areas. The tall slopes and scattered vegetation reveal the desolation of the northwest. Under the soil slope, an earth hole , which was obviously dug by hand, seemed to have existed for a long time, and once became the most iconic existence in this village.
A pair of men and women who looked like the same age last year joined hands to the cave. Perhaps they had not found anyone else, or the short time they spent together gave them no extra time to find a place of comfort, so the couple directly chose the date location in this cave.
But this behavior may not be known to the two of them, but there is no ventilated wall in the world. Just as the man and woman walked into the cave together, everything was discovered by neighbors in the same village.
from the man's impatient actions and the woman's hiding but looking forward to it, it is not difficult to guess that this woman must be living nearby, and such a bold date will definitely not let her husband know. But this does not mean that no one knows what he does.
Regularly speaking, other people have no right to comment on other people’s housework and relationships, but this does not mean that such behavior is correct, does not need to be criticized, and will not be condemned.
No matter whether a man or a woman has a family or a marriage, once she gets married, she should shoulder the responsibilities that an adult should bear, and she should be responsible for her marriage and love. Even if you feel that your marriage is not happy, you should handle a relationship well and start a new relationship.
This is the manifestation that an adult is responsible for others and is more responsible to himself. It is also the most correct way for an adult to treat his feelings.
This kind of secret date happens. The biggest reason is that the other party still has something worthy of nostalgia, or there are some things worth using and reluctant to leave. But I can't stand loneliness, so I want to hold all the "ordinary life" and "stimulating feelings" in my hands.
But I don’t know that it is this kind of greed that both fish and bear’s paw want that truly destroys a person, a family, and all people’s yearning for a better life.
Loyalty is the essence of love, respect is the true meaning of marriage. I hope everyone knows something well, there is a cause before and a result afterward. One day, everyone will taste all the cause and effect they plant.
