"The Most Beautiful Sunset Red" sung by Tong Tiexin has made many elderly people yearn for it. The warm scene of happiness, closeness, and knowing the warmth and warmth of an old companion is what every elderly person hopes for in their later years.
When a person reaches old age, being able to have the happiness of companionship is a person's most beautiful expectation for the rest of his life, and it is also the source of the happiest heart. There is no need to think about the pressure of work or the worries of life. With your monthly retirement salary, you can enjoy the beautiful sunset together with your beloved wife.
However, life is not easy. When people reach old age, if they are single, they will feel lonely and lonely. They will secretly hope that someone can join hands with them again, enter into a warm marriage of each other's company, and enjoy the warmth of having a wife at dusk and asking whether the porridge is warm.
56-year-old Aunt Zhou has been single for many years. After her only son got married, she began to think about finding a wife. She was very lucky to meet Lao Zhang, who both had a crush on each other. After getting along with each other for half a year, after experiencing the new crown rebirth after being impregnated, Lao Zhang and Aunt Zhou proposed to get a license to remarry.
After discussing with her son, Aunt Zhou agreed to reorganize a family with Lao Zhang, looking forward to the happiness of marriage in old age. Unexpectedly, on the eve of getting the certificate for remarriage, Lao Zhang asked Aunt Zhou to promise her three requirements. Aunt Zhou said angrily: I am kind and not stupid. You can find a woman who is willing to make a promise..
Confidant: 56-year-old Aunt Zhou
I am Aunt Zhou. I am 56 years old. I have been divorced for many years. My only son is working in another place and has a family.
The grudges between my ex-husband and I are not about who is right or who is wrong, they are just from different standpoints. My ex-husband believes that a man should "keep the red flag down at home and flutter the colorful flags outside", but I believe that fidelity in marriage is the basis for each other's companionship.
After the divorce, my ex-husband was kind enough and left me the three-bedroom elevator room and most of the family’s savings. However, my ex-husband would not contribute any more to my son’s family.
However, everyone has family ties. When my son got married, my ex-husband did not give her a penny, but quietly transferred 150,000 yuan to her son. I understand that he was afraid that his wife would be angry, and he was also afraid that if he really didn't give his son money, his later life would be miserable.
After finishing my son's marriage, I no longer continue to work to make money. My health is the most important thing. I should concentrate on exercising and finding myself a wife for the rest of my life. That is what I should do now.
Lao Zhang has been practicing Tai Chi for more than 10 years. He was a civil servant before retiring. When he retired, he began to learn Tai Chi from famous teachers in the Tai Chi studio. After more than ten years, he has become a master of Tai Chi. Many people in the square want to learn from him.
Lao Zhang said that practicing Tai Chi depends on fate. The master looks for the apprentice, rather than the apprentice looking for the master. Because if there is no such fate between each other, it is easy to have conflicts and even resentment. What
didn’t expect was that Lao Zhang said that he and I had this “tai chi master and apprentice” relationship. He taught me alone in the square every morning. He started with the most basic Tai Chi steps and practiced the basic skills. After practicing Tai Chi steps for 2 months, he taught me the routines.
Perhaps because of his admiration and respect for Lao Zhang, he was very touched that he taught boxing for free. Because there are also teams that teach boxing around me, but their charging standards are different. In my mind, Lao Zhang teaching boxing for free is a kind of "accumulating merit" thing.
Just half a year after I learned Tai Chi from Lao Zhang, I had a different feeling for Lao Zhang. I felt that we were both single, his wife passed away due to illness, his son and daughter had married, there were no old people to support, and our own conditions were also very good. If the two of us were together, we would be able to practice boxing together every day.
When I took the initiative to talk about this matter to Lao Zhang, Lao Zhang told me that he had had this idea for a long time, but he felt that he was much older than me and was afraid to say it out. I would no longer learn boxing from him. I brought it up and he was very happy.
This is how Lao Zhang and I began our twilight love. We had some quarrels and disagreements, but overall, Lao Zhang still accommodated me most of the time. Especially after the COVID-19 epidemic was released, Lao Zhang was unfortunately infected. I temporarily lived in his house and took good care of him without fear of being infected. It took ten days for Lao Zhang to recover.
After Lao Zhang recovered, I didn’t know if I had been exposed to yang. There was only one day when I had no strength and kept sweating. I didn’t know if it was menopause or COVID-19. I drank some cold medicine and brown sugar ginger water, and I was fine in one day.
At this time, Lao Zhang proposed to me to get a certificate to remarry. He said that after experiencing the days of COVID-19, he felt that I was his best wife in his old age, and he would stay with me for the rest of his life.
After we told our children separately, Lao Zhang chose a good day to prepare to get a certificate from me to remarry. Actually, I don’t have any requirements. I already have a house and a retirement salary. I just want a partner to spend the rest of my life with.
Unexpectedly, after Lao Zhang called his children, he asked me to agree to three requirements before he could get a certificate for me to remarry:
1. The property must be notarized before remarriage, and the living expenses after marriage must be AA-based, including the cost of water, electricity, heating and property. 2. We will do the housework together, but we can’t care about who does how much. I also promise to help take care of his son’s children for a few years, because his daughter-in-law has to go to work after the Chinese New Year, and his son’s second child will be sent over, and we will help take care of him for a few years; 3. If I get sick and hospitalized during our remarriage, I can’t ask him to take care of me. I have to pay for a caregiver or let my own children come to take care of me. Because his health is not as good as mine, so let’s talk ugly words in advance.
After listening to Lao Zhang’s three promises, I asked him: Master Zhang, if you fall ill and are hospitalized during our remarriage, can I not take care of you? If I take care of you, will you pay me a salary as a caregiver? I respect you as my master, that’s my kindness, but do you think I’m a fool for making such a rude request?
Unexpectedly, Lao Zhang was not only no longer the elegant-speaking master, but also severely reprimanded me for being ungrateful. Isn't it the right thing to take care of a master? You also need wages, and if you tell people about it, people will laugh.
Now a week has passed, and I no longer practice boxing with Lao Zhang, because we can’t be together, so why should we be embarrassed? Faced with Lao Zhang’s three undignified promises, I might as well be single with high quality!
Whose old age is not a bloody storm? It doesn’t matter whether you have a wife or not, why bother getting married? Everyone has different thinking patterns. I now feel that you can find a partner who has the same interests and hobbies without looking for a married partner.
Because there are endless troubles, they are all elderly people in their old age. They are too shrewd and purposeful. For a woman like me who has no scheming and only devotes herself to giving, it is better to stay single. When my son's family needs it, I can easily help my children. It is more practical than finding a wife.
Author: Huagui Zenxin
Pay attention to my words and enter your soul. You have stories, I have tea, and we can chat for the rest of our lives together.
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