Every time the cleaning lady in the company saw me, she asked me to show her my son's photos and videos.
While looking, she said, "Your son is so cute and handsome." Every time I go home, she will call me and ask me to show her my son.
Auntie is 60 years old this year and has two daughters. The younger daughter is in Xiamen and the older daughter is in Australia. My aunt and her husband have been doing cleaning in Shenzhen for nearly 20 years. I saved some money myself and bought a house in my hometown, but I didn't dare to stop and rest.
Auntie's eldest daughter is almost 40 years old and got married at the beginning of this year. Every time the aunt asked her daughter to have a child as soon as possible, her daughter would not be in a hurry. My aunt's daughter has lived abroad for almost twenty years and has been assimilated by foreign ideas. So every time my aunt urges her daughter to get married or have children, her daughter says that she cares about everything, so she simply doesn't answer every time she calls.
Every time my aunt sees my son, she looks envious. At the age of 60, he was originally a family-friendly age, but he still had to work hard to clean. My youngest daughter opened a company in partnership with someone, and she owed a lot of money to take care of herself, not to mention that she could take care of two elderly people. My eldest daughter is far away from home and can’t rely on her.
Sometimes when my aunt sees my family calling me, she will send a voice to her daughter, but basically she doesn’t reply to her until the night. I think it's a bit too much to be a daughter.
Not to mention raising children to prevent old age, even if children care more about the elderly when they are old, it is a kind of filial piety. But how many people can do it?
Sometimes when I go to the bathroom, I see my aunt working, and we will chat a few times. Many people in the company know about the situation in my aunt's house. This is probably why she still wants to go to work at a young age, and at least some young people are talking and chatting with him. Or the couple stared at home and did nothing. In the words of my aunt, I die quickly.
Aunt said that she basically didn't dare to ask about her two daughters, let alone urging her to get married and give birth. So she could only look at other people's children and experience the joy of playing with her grandchildren.
Auntie said that she really wanted to hold her grandson, but she could only respect her daughter's choice. The couple raised their two children to go to college, and their obligations have been fulfilled, and they don’t want to interfere too much in their lives. Young people all have their own ideas, but parents should not be accused of treating their concern for themselves as meddling in other people's business. There is no expectation that they can support themselves, so as long as they can do it, they will still do it.
people are old and have no requirements for material things. They hope to accompany each other more.
Have you considered the feelings of your parents if you are not married and infertile?
