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Introduction:
A 53-year-old woman said: "I helped take care of the children at my son's house, and my in-laws and father-in-law are there. Unexpectedly, long-term time of getting along made us feel affectionate. Finally, we got together with the support of our children and got married, but doubts also followed. Many people say that our marriage is deformed and unreasonable, but in my opinion, our marriage is very normal, so I don't care what they say." What kind of thing has he experienced? Let's take a look at their story together.
Self-reporter: Ms. Hua 53 years old
I am 53 years old this year. My hometown is from Henan. I am a rural person with a low education, so I have little knowledge, but I know that going to school is the only way to change my destiny. Although I don’t go much to study due to other conditions, I taught my son to study hard. Finally, my son lived up to expectations and was admitted to a prestigious university. Now he has started a family and settled in a big city.
My son is still very promising. Because of his good academic performance, he won many awards in school. After work, my son worked hard and received attention from his leaders. Later, after my son got married, he and my daughter-in-law also had a good relationship. Now he has given birth to a grandson for me. I am really happy and I am very satisfied to see my son’s family happy.
My son’s marriage is very happy, but my marriage is not going well. My husband is not good to me. We have an average relationship. My husband often smokes and drinks, and is in poor health. In the end, he died of illness. I have actually been used to life alone. I think there is nothing wrong with being alone. Now I go to my son’s house to help see the child. It is still very lively to live with my son. My daughter-in-law treats me well. I think life is still very good.
What I didn't expect was that my daughter-in-law asked her father to go, which is my in-laws. He has been living alone. This is what I know. Since my son got married, he has been single, so it's not easy for him to be alone over the years. Our situation is actually similar. My son's house is quite big, and we can still live there.
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Does my daughter-in-law see that my in-laws are lonely by myself, so I let him move in. To be honest, my in-laws and I are not very familiar with each other. I have only met twice in total, so I haven't said much. I don't know much about his personality, but through the communication over the past few days, my in-laws is a very honest man and I have left a good impression on me.
There are two of us who help take care of the children. My son and daughter-in-law are still very relaxed. My work with my in-laws and father-in-law is separated. I am only responsible for taking care of the children. My in-laws are responsible for the hygiene and cooking at home. Not to mention, my in-laws and father-in-law's skills are still very good. I heard that he had fried big pot dishes for those wedding banquets before, and the taste was still very good. Our family likes to eat the dishes he cooks, and the level is really good. Anyway, I like to eat very much, and I even look forward to what I eat every day.
In this way, my in-laws and I do their own jobs. Men and women are not tired of working together. We often chat with each other because I am quite bored, so I will ask my in-laws to read the news or chat with each other. I found that we still have a lot in common. We all like spicy food, raising dogs, and playing cards. In this way, our relationship is getting better and better, and we have become friends who can talk about everything.
Half a year later, I often go shopping with my in-laws and go for a walk with him when I have nothing to do. I think it’s still very happy to be with him, but when I meet many acquaintances, they will think we are old couples, which makes us quite embarrassed. We don’t say anything to refuse, but we are quite happy in our hearts.
I knew we had feelings for each other. Later, my in-laws proposed to take me to the movie and asked the second wife to take care of the child at home first. I was still surprised that he would take me to the movie. After watching the movie, he proposed to me. He took a ring to confess to me, saying that he wanted to be with me. Actually, I was willing, but I told him that if the child agreed, we would live together.
After we went back, we told our son and daughter-in-law about this. Unexpectedly, they not only did not object, but also supported us very much. This is to kiss and kiss us. We were together like this, but many people opposed us being together, and even said some ugly gossip. I still felt uncomfortable when I heard it, but later I gradually became open-minded. I made up my life, I was right, I was just happy, just be happy.
Today's topic:
In my opinion, this kind of kissing and adding more kinship is still very good. We are very familiar with each other, so we have to spend time to get to know others again. In this way, we have a certain emotional foundation after we are together, which will reduce the occurrence of many conflicts. I think this is a good thing, and I hope they can continue to be happy.
Do you think Ms. Hua will be happy after marrying her in-laws? Is this relationship appropriate? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment section below for discussion.
