text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Xiaojing has seen this statement online:
Love is just a game played by young people. As they grow older, women's desire for love will become less and less. After the age of sixty, women almost don't need love much.
Psychological research shows that age increases will indeed make people's desires diminish, but it is not completely none.
Moreover, love itself is a lifelong pursuit of women. No matter how old they are, women still have fantasies about love.
Strictly speaking, a woman who has passed the age of sixty has entered the last stage of her life. Although there are not many days ahead, she does not want to stop.
Watching young people immerse themselves in the beauty of love, women who have passed the age of sixty also want to have a support.
The difference is that women who are over 60 years old are more realistic. On the surface, they pursue true love, but in fact they are mixed with other purposes.
As she grows older, a woman’s ideas have become more mature. She knows clearly what she wants, it is love, and it is also the company and support for the rest of her life.
So, if you ask me if a woman who is over 60 years old still needs a man, I will tell you with certainty that she needs it.
This is not my personal opinion, but the answer obtained after investigation. Xiaojing has interviewed many older women, and their answers are very realistic.
reader Ms. Wang, 62 years old, said: "Of course I need a man. It is better to be with someone to accompany me than to be alone. At least I won't feel too lonely."
Ms. Wang's wife has passed away due to illness for three years. Her children are afraid that she will be sad, so they stay with her until half a year ago.
It was from this time that Ms. Wang realized that she was really lonely. Although friends are often accompanied by you, once you get home, you will feel lonely.
Only then did she realize that it was really a blessing to have a man by her side. Even if she just talks and eats, she feels very satisfied.
After half of his life, women are very sensitive to loneliness, especially when they live alone for a long time, women feel even more lonely.
This sense of loneliness cannot be eliminated by friends' company. Only the man who truly lives with her can relieve her loneliness.
So, women still need men after they are over 60 years old.
Neighbor Aunt Chen, 65 years old, said: "I used to think it's good to be alone, but now I realize that there is a person around me. If I am sick, I will take care of you."
Aunt Chen has been divorced for almost ten years. In the past ten years, she has actually lived a very casual life. She goes out for travel when she has nothing to do, not to mention how comfortable it is.
But not long ago, she fell seriously ill and her children were busy with work and could not be with them to take care of them, so they had to hire a nurse.
Although the caregiver is paying for money, he is not considerate at all. This way, Aunt Chen feels very sad, and the idea of finding someone has become stronger for the first time.
Women who are over 60 years old are no longer so healthy, and they may get sick if they are not careful.
In this case, if someone can be with you, the woman will feel warm and happy.
It is precisely for this reason that women need men's company. Even if there is not much love between two people, it is enough to take care of each other and support each other.
Aunt Tan, a fellow villager, is 67 years old. She said: "Others laugh at me for being married at this age, but I feel very satisfied because he can let me live a good life."
Aunt Tan is a miserable person. She became a widow at the age of 40 and raised her child alone, but the child did not support her.
In order to maintain her life, she is still working everywhere. This kind of life has caused her torture, and she really wants to find a man to rely on.
After the introduction of the matchmaker, she met an uncle from the neighboring village. The two hit it off and quickly got the certificate.
Although her marriage has been discussed by many people, she doesn't care about other people's opinions. For her, being able to have a support and live a good life is her greatest satisfaction.
For women, if they have not lived a good life after they are 60 years old, they will be wasted their life. Many women do not want to end up in such a situation, so they will pin their hopes on men.
In order to live a better life, women who have passed by 60 still need men.
Xiaojing Emotional Station:
For women who have passed the age of sixty, men bring not only love, but also companionship, care, and a good life.
These are what women dream of getting, and they have no reason to refuse, and they will not give up pursuing.
So we have reason to believe that women over 60 need men.
Women need men's company, which will make her less lonely. A woman needs men's care, which will make her feel warmer. Women need men to bring a good life, which will make her feel happy.
Although it is not easy to find true love after the age of sixty, I believe that fate will not treat everyone with hope unfairly.
As long as everyone does not give up, they will sooner or later get the happiness they want. It may be a little later, but it doesn’t matter. Even if it is only at the last moment of life, life is perfect.
