The family’s conditions are not good. Now they are 40 years old and are not married yet. They will live alone in the future.
I have lived in the countryside since I was a child. I have 5 sisters in my family. I am the second child. I have been single for 40 years and have never been able to find a partner. I have been delayed until now. The eldest brother got married, he had a son and a daughter, his daughter got married, and his son got married and divorced. The third brother got married, married a stupid wife and gave birth to a stupid daughter. A few years ago, the wife also passed away. Her daughter got married and ran back. She had a problem with her mind and now she doesn't know where to go. You also know that people who are mentally ill run around and don’t go home all day. The fourth brother got married and had two daughters, one son. The eldest daughter was 32 years old. She is not married yet and is worried about not being able to find a partner. The second daughter is young and works outside, while the younger son is in a technical school. I have a sister who is not far away, and my life is average and I usually come.
All the misfortunes have been encountered by my family. The injustice of fate, the dispersion, the separation, the separation, the separation, like a vicious cycle, I am depressed now. My dad passed away early, and my mom was still here, and I was always worried about my marriage. She said, "I'm leaving, I can't worry about you. How can you live alone in the future? Seeing you live like this, we can't do anything." Last year, my mom also left, and now I'm the only one left. Every time I go home, I miss her. I have a life with my parents, my home is here, and I have thoughts. I suddenly don't get used to it, and I have to do everything myself.
In the village, there are two or three bachelors as big as me, and they are often laughing at others. Some people say to their children, "You can't be like someone, you will be a bachelor all your life, you won't even have a hot meal when you go home, you won't make money, you will be lazy, etc." Gradually, I became the negative textbook in the village, and I was pointed at by them behind my back. After a long time, I became used to it.
What kind of people can’t find objects in the countryside? People who don’t have a house at home, have poor living conditions, are honest and can’t speak sweet words, and are not good-looking. Anyone with better conditions at home will not worry about not being able to find a partner. Therefore, there are many bachelors in rural areas, and the whole family will not be hungry if they eat one person.
Now, I have no idea to find a wife, thinking about how to make money, saving some pension for myself, and spending money when I am sick. There is a contractor in the village who usually works with him, which costs 150 yuan a day and more than 4,000 yuan a month. This salary is also satisfactory. As long as you are diligent in the countryside, you will not be afraid of being hungry. For the sake of your future life, earn more money to prepare for future troubles.
Now I have a second and third marriage. People have high requirements, they need more than 100,000 yuan in brides, a house and a car, not to mention other things, which scared me and didn't dare to get married. There are fewer and fewer women in the village. They all go out to work outside and then find someone from another place to get married. Basically no one comes back and no longer stays in the countryside. Do you think there are still people in the countryside now? They are all older people, and young people are buying houses outside.
Now I am also thinking about it. I won’t get married anymore. I don’t have the conditions. I can’t give her what she wants. I will live a lonely life. People who never get married in their entire lives always feel that something is missing is also regretful. They have never felt the scene of their wives and children being warm on the bed.
After that, one person will continue to walk alone! #No. 1 Jieyou Hall#
