The old saying often says : "The road is far away and the horse is power, and people's hearts are seen over time." . Don't be too blind when interacting with people. Human beings have always been the existence of high-quality IQ creatures in this world, but when dealing with smart people, in some cases it is even more scary, because if you don’t pay attention, you may misunderstand others’ words and do some embarrassing things while getting along.
Our country has always been known for its etiquette country. It was originally a very proud title, but it is precisely because of this that sometimes when communicating with hostile or unconfrontational people, always likes to hide mean words in the false and impolite words. If you can't tell the difference, it would be too much of a loss if the other party says it.
or when visiting someone’s house, the host’s words are actually just for the sake of politeness, not really thinking this way. In other words, it is just some scenes that everyone knows very well, and they can’t count them. If we don’t understand the truth and answering is inappropriate, it will seem a bit reckless.
Although it is always so heart-wrenching and hard to communicate with others, it is always good to be careful when facing other people's twists and turns. For example, the following "3 sentences" are the most common polite words we hear, so don't "jump down the ladder".
〖界一〗 "You come here, what else do you bring?"
This may be the most common sentence we have heard since we were young. When we were young, we heard adults say this, and when we grew up, we became one of them. Although I don’t understand why, I always feel uncomfortable when I visit relatives and friends without bringing something to the door. Even if I simply carry a box of milk and a box of fruit, it is better than empty-handed.
As a treat, you may not be really unfair to a guest who comes to visit without any of them. Maybe you can't help but examine the valuation of the gifts brought by the guests. If it is too casual, you may be a little puzzled. So, "Just just come, why bring so many gifts?", let's just listen to it, don't care too much.
〖界〗: "I haven't prepared any dishes, so everyone eat and drink at will."
This sentence was actually to show the owner's modesty at the beginning, but as I heard these words again and again at such dinners, it is sometimes quite confusing. Especially on some obviously sumptuous wine tables, the host said to a table of delicacies and seafood that he had not prepared any good things, so that everyone could make a living, and it would be a little "show off" about it.
But this sentence itself hopes that the guests will be kind and accept it. We will be in place for a few words of "come politeness". , don’t ask directly: “So many dishes are prepared casually? Then do you usually eat so many expensive things?” asks sincerely and will change its flavor in this situation, and it will look aggressive. So how can you eat this dinner?
〖界词〗 "It's dark, stay here tonight, right?"
always asks you to come and go when you enter. The guests look so enthusiastic before entering and bringing gifts. When they go out, the host will look even more enthusiastic. He will keep the guests who want to have lunch for a long time to stay for dinner, so that the guests who have dinner will stay for one more night.
But in fact, the host and the guest must have a clear mirror in his heart at this time. The host does not really want to keep the guests. Then what he said will probably be ready-made in room, just lay it out. It's a very simple thing . This means that he didn't mean to decorate the guest room at the beginning. So what should we keep it? Is it causing trouble for people?
Some people may think that this kind of communication etiquette is a bit pedantic or hypocritical, but after all, it is a convention passed down from the previous generation. Many people have been deeply imprinted in their hearts and it is difficult to eradicate it. In short, when you hear some polite words, don’t take it too seriously and don’t take it to heart.
However, there are more or less a few close and familiar friends around everyone. Sometimes you can really not care about these empty talks, but rather than visiting friends’ houses empty-handed, is better to bring 2 bottles of good wine together. For example, the following 2 are good.
In fact,
❶Dongyuanjia Wine
Guangxi This Dongyuanjia Wine is a famous wine with a century-old history and unique craftsmanship. It has added more than 30 animal and plant medicinal materials, which not only contains wonderful traditional skills, but also contains scientific craft calculations. is a rice steamed wine with relatively low degrees, but the wine is of good quality, soft and mellow taste and not irritating, and it is not as good as the top-notch. The main reason is that the packaging is very exquisite, and the gift is quite long.
❷Guokang 1935
This wine is a "treasure" of Kweichow Moutai . It has good sales in the market. is mainly because this wine is of excellent quality and cheap price. It is less than 200 yuan per bottle. and it taste good, and it has been sought after by more and more people before they know it.
This wine has such a good reputation, which is inseparable from the hard work of the brewer behind it. This master who once served as an important position in Moutai Distillery - Mr. Chen Xingxi. He is like the guiding light of the quality of this wine. Under his illumination, , the sauce wine made of high-quality red sorghum, is shining brightly.
After hundreds of processes and 5 years of cellaring, the base wine is quite plump. It is added with 10 years of aging, making the wine more fragrant and fragrant, with elegant and gentle taste. It is sweet and has a little ripe bitterness, which is very layered and refreshing aftertaste. The packaging is elegant and elegant, and it is also suitable for gifts.
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