The introduction says that confinement is the most critical period for women. During this period, women must maintain their health and have to sit well, otherwise they will leave behind lifelong confinement diseases. Therefore, during this period, family members will make very nu

Introduction

It is said that confinement is the most critical period for women. During this period, women must take good care of their health and sit well, otherwise they will leave lifelong confinement diseases. Therefore, during this period, family members will make very nutritious meals for women during confinement to help them maintain their health.

My confinement meal

Xiaoying is a very honest and honest woman. She is the kind of person who you bullied her and she won’t say anything.

In fact, the reason why she developed such a personality is inseparable from her parents. Her father is a cripple, her mother is a mute, and she is not her parents' biological child, she was picked up by them.

Her adoptive father and mother were unable to have children due to physical reasons back then. This was a lifelong pain in their hearts, because in their era, no matter which household, there were groups of children.

They also want to have so many children. Even if they are hard and tired, they will be content as long as they can give birth to a child and a half of their daughters.

Maybe God is disgusting them too, thinking that they have physical defects and cannot raise their children well, so they don’t give them the opportunity to be parents.

But there is an old saying that God closes a door for you and will open a window for you. When they were 40 years old, when they were going up the mountain to chop wood, they heard the cry of a baby girl in the distance.

They thought that someone accidentally lost the child when they were chopping wood, so they found the baby girl with crying, because sometimes there were jackals and beasts on the mountain, and they were afraid that the child would be hurt.

So after finding the child, they were waiting for the child's parents to claim her, but it was dark when they waited, and no one came to pick her up, so they took the baby girl home.

At first, they didn't want to raise the baby girl themselves, because they were afraid that the baby girl's parents would not be able to find her, so they told the local village government about the situation of picking up the baby girl.

, but it was half a year later, but no one came to claim her. At that time, they thought that this baby girl was given to them by God. Since it had been so long, no one came to claim her, so they raised the child by themselves.

After having this child, their lives became more hopeful. They laughed and laughed every day, and they were not tired of the children's crying. Instead, they felt that it was the most pleasant and pleasant sound. Everyone in the village behind

knew that Xiaoying was not the biological daughter of her parents, so she often bullied her and beat her up, but every time she was bullied by others, she didn't dare to say anything. She just lowered her head and leaned against the corner. If she was beaten by others, she would only dare to hide in the corner and cry silently.

Because Xiaoying's adoptive father and mother are also a very honest person, and their daughter was picked up by them, they dared to speak out even more. Every time they saw their daughter being bullied by others, they only dared to say pale and powerlessly and told them not to beat them, and then there was no further information.

So Xiaoying is a child who grew up in such an environment. Because of the influence of the environment and the inaction of her adoptive father and mother, her personality is particularly introverted and she is also particularly inferior.

For a while, she hated her adoptive father and mother. She thought they were too cowardly. Seeing that she was bullied by others, she didn't dare to come to support her, but later she figured it out.

No matter how unwilling she was, her biological parents had never come to find her, and her adoptive father and mother were old and life was not easy. It was not easy for them to raise her, so she was still very grateful to her adoptive father and mother from the bottom of her heart.

is the age when she is going to get married, but no one has come to propose marriage. At that time, she was actually very anxious because the only little sister who had played well with her was already married, and no one has married her yet, so she felt very uncomfortable.

At that time, her adoptive father and mother were also helping her to make a matchmaker. After half a year, one person was finally willing to marry her, but the man was divorced and had two children.

Her adoptive father and mother felt that she was very wronged by her daughter and didn’t want her daughter to marry him, but Xiaoying later agreed. She felt that it would be great if there was a man who was willing to marry her.

At that time, she didn't dare to ask the man for a bride price, but the man knew the rules and gave him some bride price. Later, she took Xiaoying to his house directly, and there was no banquet or banquet in between.

After getting married, Xiaoying quickly became pregnant. At that time, her mother-in-law, Aunt Wang, was so happy. She hoped that Xiaoying could have a boy because the two children born by her son and his ex-wife were daughters.

So she put all her hope on Xiaoying. When Xiaoying was pregnant, Aunt Wang thought of ways to make delicious food for her every day, for fear that she would not eat well and that the child would not grow well after she was born.

It can be said that that period was the most comfortable time Xiaoying had ever lived. She was served by her mother-in-law every day, without washing clothes, cooking, and washing dishes. There were also delicious meals made by her mother-in-law every day.

She was particularly satisfied at the time and felt that she had not married the wrong person, but after she gave birth to the child, everything changed because she was not a son, but a daughter.

The day when she gave birth to the child, her mother-in-law didn't give her a good look. Her husband also ignored her and the child had never looked at her. Faced with their sudden change of face, Xiaoying had not adapted to it, so she felt particularly aggrieved.

But something even more aggrieved is still there. During her confinement period, her mother-in-law never cooked meat for her, and she didn't give her any meat. She just cooked vegetables and egg soup for her to drink every day.

and there was no oil in the soup. At that time, she thought her mother-in-law was particularly overdoing, so she asked her why she didn't make meat for her. At this time, her body was the weakest and needed the most nutrition. How could she not eat meat?

But her mother-in-law said with confidence that eating meat is not good for her health and is easy to get milk. She doesn't want her granddaughter to spend money on milk powder because she doesn't have milk. She thinks buying milk powder is the most unfair money she spends.

so she said she was unwilling to buy meat for Xiaoying to eat, and Xiaoying later accepted it because after all, she has no work and no income for her child. It is already very good for her mother-in-law to be able to serve her during confinement.

So during the entire confinement period, she ate vegetable and egg soup. After the confinement period, she lost several pounds and her face was particularly sallow, as if she had grown several years old.

The difference between mother-in-law

After hearing her husband's words, Xiaoying had to leave her child and go out to find a job to work. However, after a few days of work, she felt soreness in her back and felt uncomfortable all over because she was looking for a job in the kitchen of the restaurant and often needed to clean plates.

Every time she soaked her hands in cold water to wash the dishes, her hands would cramp from time to time, and her waist would be sore after standing for a long time. At that time, she felt that she had not sat down during the confinement period.

Because in their restaurant, women older than her did the same job as her, they didn't say anything about the pain in their bodies, but she had left all the confinement disease and had no choice.

In fact, she can still tolerate this pain on her body at work. The main reason is that she feels uncomfortable all over when the day changes, and her back pain can't get straight. She has to apply plaster every time, but it won't work without applying plaster.

So whenever the day changes, she will feel ache in her body, and she will think of the vegetable and egg soup made by her mother-in-law for her confinement meal. When she thinks of this, she feels particularly wronged and uncomfortable.Xiaoying's sister-in-law, who is her husband's sister, got married, after getting married, after getting married, his sister was in confinement during her parents' home. Because his sister's mother-in-law was sick, she could not help her take care of the children, nor could she serve her confinement during her confinement period.

So Xiaoying's sister-in-law went back to her parents' home for confinement. At that time, Xiaoying's mother-in-law was so happy. She had not been with her daughter for such a long time, so she had arranged it for her in all aspects.

cleaned the empty room at home, and made it for her daughter to live there, and told her daughter not to touch the cold water, and she didn't need to wash clothes or anything else. She just had to stay in the room and rest.

At that time, Xiaoying felt particularly frustrated because when she was in confinement, her mother-in-law had never said such heartwarming words to her, and her mother-in-law also asked her to wash clothes with cold water, and she was not allowed to use hot water, saying that it would cost electricity if it was burning hot water. What made Xiaoying even more aggrieved was that her mother-in-law made meat for her sister-in-law every meal, either stewed soybeans stewed with pig trotters or stewed with crucian carp tofu. In short, it was all kinds of fish, meat, chickens and ducks, etc., and she made all kinds of meat dishes, and she didn't bring any more every day.

At that time, Xiaoying felt very unbalanced because when her mother-in-law served her during her confinement period, she had never cooked meat for her, and had never cooked meat for her to eat. She also said that eating too much meat would be bad for her health and would get milked.

But when her daughter was in confinement, she cooked meat for her every meal, and never made vegetables and egg soup for her, and her mother-in-law and her daughter never said that eating meat would make her milk.

, so this made her feel very unhappy, and her mother-in-law also asked her to hand over her salary and buy meat for her sister-in-law. Although Xiaoying was very honest, she was very angry after seeing her mother-in-law's unreasonable request, so she had a big fight with her mother-in-law. Later, her mother-in-law said that if she didn't pay her salary, she would not help her take care of the children.

Mediation

Seeing her mother-in-law so greedy, she was particularly annoyed because she knew that her mother-in-law was a scoundrel and was particularly unreasonable, so she invited a mediator to ask them to help her judge. At the end of the mediation of

, Xiaoying's mother-in-law also realized her mistake. She said that she would not let Xiaoying pay her salary later, and she also admitted that she was indeed biased towards her daughter.

She felt very regretful when she didn't make meat for Xiaoying to eat during the confinement meal, but everything had happened, and Xiaoying didn't plan to pursue anything anymore. She just hoped that her mother-in-law would not make such unreasonable things in the future and treat her differently.

Her mother-in-law also agreed with Xiaoying's statement at that time, so they forgave each other later.

is written at the end

I think Xiaoying’s mother-in-law is really not doing it properly. Which woman who is in confinement does not eat meat? At this time, their bodies need to supplement nutrition the most. They should eat better. Although it does not mean that they need to eat meat every meal, at least they also need to eat some meat.

In fact, her mother-in-law knew that women who were in the confinement period could eat meat and needed to supplement nutrition. Otherwise, she would not have cooked meat for her every meal when her daughter came to her house for confinement.

Her different treatment really makes Xiaoying, who is a wife, feels very uncomfortable. She should think from the perspective of others. If her daughter is treated like this differently at her in-laws' house, what would she think?

So you can't be so selfish. After all, she still has to rely on her daughter-in-law to take care of her when she is old. If she is so sarcastic to her daughter-in-law now, then she will probably not be very good to her when she is old.

I wonder what you think? Welcome to express your opinions!