01
Speaking of my mother-in-law, everyone agreed that she has a good personality and likes to joke, but she just can't stand me.
When I was in love with my husband, she jumped out to object, saying that growing up with a single-parent family will be extreme and will affect children in the future. Unfortunately, in the first round, she lost and we got married.
Speaking of the dowry, my husband intends to give an extra 20,000, because I have a dowry of 100,000, but my mother-in-law is not right. She can't give the dowry, so why do you have to give it more? In the second round, I lost, and the 80,000 yuan gift made my love.
At the wedding, everyone praised me for being so lucky and finding a good husband-in-law. I smiled without saying a word. My mother-in-law hugged my shoulders and said that I was lucky, so I found a good daughter-in-law.
I turned around calmly. She was not angry because I avoided it. Instead, she pulled the old sisters who came to have a drink and talked happily.
The guests were gone, and my mother-in-law read the family rules to me with a serious look on her face. I yawned and couldn't help. She was shouted at four o'clock in the morning to do her hair. She gave me a blank look and said I don’t have a tutor. I’ll reply, it’s not my own child.
02
Our wedding room is in the same community as my mother-in-law. From time to time, my husband takes me to eat for free. He eats a short mouth, so I will naturally say a few less words. This time, as usual, I was about to leave after I finished eating, and my mother-in-law called me to stop.
This is the second month I have had my free meals. My mother-in-law explicitly ordered that she had to wash dishes if she wanted to eat.
I went into the kitchen reluctantly. My husband wanted to help, but my mother-in-law stopped him and said that marrying a wife was not for the ancestors.
Looking at my new nails, soaked in oily water, I was crazy. My mother-in-law appeared behind me at some point and said that I was married, so she should not make such fancy things.
I threw down the bowl in my hand, looked at my mother-in-law, walked out of the kitchen, and walked away under everyone's attention.
Ten minutes later, I heard my mother-in-law teach her husband a lesson through the door, saying that I was rude and had no tutor, how to live in the future, etc.
I rang the doorbell and my mother-in-law said angrily, why are you coming back?
"Dishwashing!" I continued, "I just went to buy a glove, and I knew you would talk to me." After that, I shook my hands and said that I must protect my manicure.
Since this time, I have been determined to cook at home and eat by myself.
03
Honey, my husband didn't go to my mother-in-law's place for a while, and my mother-in-law airborne, caught us off guard.
My mother-in-law saw the crabs on the table and complained that it would cost a lot of money, right? I really can't live, how many pieces of meat can I have.
no matter how he said it, his mother-in-law still couldn't withstand the temptation and learned to eat it. Who would have thought that two crabs ate their mother-in-law into the hospital.
The third day after eating the crab, I received a call from my mother-in-law, and she came up and said she wanted to murder her, saying that I had poisoned her, etc. My husband and I went to her house as fast as possible.
My mother-in-law's face was full of rash . She said she was itchy and didn't dare to scratch it. Her face was swollen with visible eyes. I said timidly, it's not because of seafood allergy?
My mother-in-law felt uncomfortable when she returned on the same day, and started to have rashes the next day. She just applied some medicine and didn't care. It was not until she applied all the medicine at home that she realized that it was a crab problem.
We accompanied my mother-in-law to the hospital and was diagnosed with seafood allergy. My mother-in-law said I was uneasy. I was wronged for compensation for the crab, and I was so angry that I quarreled with my mother-in-law all the way.
No matter how my husband persuaded me, I haven't been to my mother-in-law's house for half a year.
04
Home, sooner or later, will you have to enter the whole house.
Hearing the news of my pregnancy, my mother-in-law took the initiative to come to see me, holding a chicken in her hand, saying that she asked someone to buy it in the countryside. She helped me fold my clothes and said that I would be a mother and I would not be so lazy anymore.
Until noon, she had no intention of leaving. She turned out to be cooking for me. She said that in the future, she would deliver food to me when I go to work. It would be bad for the children to eat fast food and takeout.
Just as I was moved by my mother-in-law's efforts, I fantasized about being filial to her in the future. She said, don't be too careful, I am not bowing to you, but just for the sake of the child.
I hold my mother-in-law’s meal in my stomach every day, carry her affection in my heart, and never admit her goodness in my mouth.
8 months pregnant, my husband and I went to see the confinement center. When my mother-in-law heard that, she came and quarreled with me and asked if she thought the food she made was not delicious and was afraid that she would not be able to take care of me.
I was a little depressed and was about to explain, but my mother-in-law said, "You are the life of a lady, the maid, and it will cost tens of thousands of yuan for a confinement."
I simply didn't explain, I was showing off, I was the lady's body, I don't care if I live or not. Anyway, I don't need anyone to ask about spending my own money.
Mother-in-law's face turned green in an instant, and she kept saying, "Okay, okay, I won't care about you anymore."
I don’t know if my mother-in-law is really choking. I would rather be auditory hallucination , and I feel a little uncomfortable.
05
My mother-in-law was ill by me. Although my husband told me not to blame myself, my mother-in-law was because of a cold, but I knew in my heart that how could the medicine that can relieve the liver and breath be just a cold?
father-in-law has not retired yet, and her husband can't go home at noon. I took maternity leave and came to deliver meals to my mother-in-law every day with a big belly. She was so dizzy that the cooking smoke made her feel disgusted.
I change my ways to make the meals she likes every day. Maybe it was because I was vomiting in the dark at the time of three months of pregnancy, and only she could find a way to make me eatable every day.
We still rarely talk, just like completing the task, she said her needs, and I made my request.
September 1, 37 weeks ago, I made soup and prepared to deliver it to me at noon. I felt uncomfortable, so I leaned against the sofa to read a book. A slight sensation of burnt made me wake up instantly. I didn’t see the stool under my feet. I got up and raised my feet, and I fell straight over.
I subconsciously held my stomach, still feeling the piercing pain, and then I saw Hong. I have done a lot of guides before, but there is not a single person around me at this moment, and I am still trembling with fear.
I called my mother-in-law twice first, but no one answered. I just called my husband and was hung up. I sent a message saying that it was having a meeting. No one answered it after calling. I suddenly felt extremely desperate and had no idea for a moment.
06
My mother-in-law replied first. I had regular contractions . She appeared in front of me in her home clothes and slippers. I seemed to see hope, and my husband rushed back home in a hurry.
My mother-in-law called him to take me to the hospital quickly. When I heard her anxious voice, I suddenly had red eyes. She kept accompanying me and told me to hold on. Don’t be nervous. She was always there...
The child was born and had a caesarean section. When I saw my mother-in-law, her eyes were red and she was in a mess, completely different from the usual exquisiteness. She held my hand and said it was a child. Thank you for your hard work.
My mother-in-law is glad we have set up a confinement center. With her situation, she will definitely not be able to take care of her confinement. She went to see the environment and confinement meal , and thought it was worth it.
Later, I heard from my husband that on the day I gave birth, she was more anxious than anyone else and didn't dare to sit down for a moment. She cried and waited while she couldn't persuade her. Until the doctor said that I had given birth and the mother and son were safe, she had a moment of rest.
After that, my mother-in-law and I have undergone subtle changes. She is no longer aggressive and often tells my husband that I work and care about the hard work of the children. I rarely contradict her. I silently think in my heart that she just wants to speak quickly.
After we have helped each other, we have friendship. I figured it out. Even if my mother-in-law doesn't like me, she loves my child from the bottom of her heart. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have common protection. Then we should be comrades-in-arms, not enemies.
